So I am sure you’ve heard by now A-list celebrity couple Taylor Swift and Calvin Harris have seemingly mutually and respectfully called it quits. If you haven’t heard it yet, I’m really sorry it came from me. Take a deep breath, eat a cookie, and keep reading when you're ready. We all thought Tayvin was forever, and some all of us still think Tayvin is forever. They gave us 15 months of bliss and then just took it away. Getting over a break up is never easy, but at least we have each other. And also Will Ferrell.

1. First, you hear about it.

And boy, does it hit like a ton of bricks.

2. You’re in denial.

It seems unlikely that the whole internet is in on this joke against you but not impossible.

3. Time for self-blame.

Is there anything I could have done?

4. Then, you turn to blaming others.

Is there anything you could have done?

5. Now, it’s time to just mope.

Let all your feelings soak in. Just wallow in the frustration and despair for a while.

6. Next, you gotta fake it.

Maybe you're still not okay, and that's okay. But you can't let them know. Fake it till you make it.

7. Finally, acceptance.

You come to terms with the loss and wish them both the best. And by “come to terms with the loss and wish them both the best,” we all know I mean “hope Taylor gets a bomb album outta this and then they realize they can make this work and get back together.”