Your "home sweet apartment" is a huge step in your life. You and your roommates finally have your own place, rent to pay and a whole lot of nothing to put in it. You probably just got used to living in the dorm or your sorority/fraternity house, and now it's time to pretend like you're an adult in a real-deal apartment. Here are some tips on how to turn that small space into a Babe Cave... or a Dude Cave.
First, make sure you've got the right roommates. At least assure that everyone is on the same page. Happy roommates, happy life. The "common areas" are not only your own. So, living with friends can make it less awkward and more homey because friends are the family that you choose. Always always always respect your roommates and their space, even if they are your very best friend. It's crucial that everyone feels comfortable.
So, on to the fun stuff: decorating. To make an apartment feel like home, everything needs to be tied together. When you first move in, take the time to coordinate with your roommates. If everyone pitches in for the decor, then everyone will feel like it's part their own. Try to compliment the area with pieces that remind you of home. A large rug in the living room can instantly make the apartment feel more homey. Plants and wall decor will make the apartment look like it's cared for. Regardless, remember you're in college, so play around with youthful decor. Tapestries are a college apartment must-have.
Personalizing the area will also assist in making the apartment feel extra homey. Put pictures on the fridge of you and your roommates. A dry erase board for notes/memos from the roomz during the week can make coming home more welcoming.
Cooking can make a world of difference in a little apartment. Cook a meal for you and your roommates. I don't mean ramen or cereal, I mean get the stove burning and prepare a homemade meal. Bringing people together can create a special vibe in your place. Good food and good friends is all you really need.
When it comes down to it, home is where you make it. Embrace your college years and use your apartment to help you decide how to define yourself. Don't get too mad about the people partying above you. It's college, what do you expect? By the same token, you deserve a safe haven to call home. College is wild and full of unexpected nights out and exams. Relaxation is critical. Do your best to make yourself a comfy little space you can call hizzity home.
