13 Outfits For Men And Women That Will Have You Feeling Confident This Holiday Season

13 Outfits For Men And Women That Will Have You Feeling Confident This Holiday Season

Look and feel confident this holiday season!

The holiday season is upon us! The season of giving is also the season of holiday parties and family gatherings. If you are like me, your outfit says a lot about you. The best way to wear an outfit is not only with a smile, (get the "Annie" reference?) but with confidence. Here are some outfit ideas for the Holiday season for all my ladies (and gentleman) that will make you stand taller.

1. Dresses

If you go to church or if it's a formal event, a dress is always a good way to go. I personally love sweater dresses and how they show off my figure just the way I want it to. Put some leggings or tights underneath it and you have the perfect outfit to shield you away from the cold. Whatever your favorite style of dress is, work it, girl!

2. Anything soft

Style over comfort? Why can't we have both!? For both women and men, nothing shows off confidence more than when you're comfortable and warm!

3. Pullover

For my guys out there, something as simple as a nice polo will go a long way. You'll be comfy and warm, what could be better!

4. Sparkles!

Nothing screams the New Year better than glitter and sparkly outfits! I have seen plenty of cute pieces on Pinterest that incorporate a subtle (or not-so-subtl) amount of sparkles. Your confidence will shine through as well as your actual outfit!

5. Velvet

I was looking back at some old Christmas card pictures. In one of the pictures, I was 4 years old and wearing a velvet dress! They are making a comeback! Not only does this material remind me of the holidays, but it is super soft!

6. A nice suit (or at least a sport coat

A suit is always a great way to go. If you don't want to get that fancy, a sports coat will go a long way with some nice pants

7. Statement socks

Yep, you heard me right. Statement SOCKS. They can be fuzzy or colorful, wild designs or socks with animals or food on them. For women and men alike, nothing says self-expression like your socks. Are you put together and calm or wild and fun? Your socks say a lot about you.

8. Sweaters

The style I personally love is wearing a collared shirt (it's most of the time a flannel) with a knit sweater over it. It keeps you really warm and also formal without that much effort!

9. Blanket Scarves

I LOVE blanket scarves! When it is snowing outside or just really cold, this will guarantee to keep you warm. You can also pair anything with a blanket scarf! It is an essential piece of clothing for the fall and winter months.

10. Beanies

You can tell a lot about a person by what kind of hat they wear. No better way to show off your fashion sense during the cold months than with a beanie.

11. Tulle Midi skirts

These skirts always remind me of ballerina tutus so if you are a wanna-be ballerina like me, you probably own at least one of these. They are a perfect combination of comfortability and make you feel like your wearing a ballgown.

12. Vests

You can pair anything with a vest. An old t-shirt? Yes, please! If you aren't into dressing up this holiday season, then a vest will do that for you.

13. A smile on your face

The holiday season is a time of love, joy, and being together. The key to confidence is being confident in yourself! Your smile will show that off perfectly

No matter what you decide to wear this holiday season, being around those that you about care and sharing the joy you have for this holiday season is all that matters. No matter what you look like, be thankful and joyful for the most wonderful time of the year!

Cover Image Credit: Brooke Cagle

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20 Small Tattoos With Big Meanings

Tattoos with meaning you can't deny.

It's tough to find perfect tattoos with meaning.

You probably want something permanent on your body to mean something deeply, but how do you choose a tattoo that will still be significant in 5, 10, 15, or 50 years? Over time, tattoos have lost much of their stigma and many people consider them a form of art, but it's still possible to get a tattoo you regret.

So here are 20 tattoos you can't go wrong with. Each tattoo has its own unique meaning, but don't blame me if you still have to deal with questions that everyone with a tattoo is tired of hearing!

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1. A semi-colon indicates a pause in a sentence but does not end. Sometimes it seems like you may have stopped, but you choose to continue on.

2. "A smooth sea never made a skilled sailor."

3. Top symbol: unclosed delta symbol which represents open to change. Bottom symbol: strategy.

4. "There are nights when the wolves are silent and only the moon howls."

5. Viking symbol meaning "create your own reality."

6.Greek symbol of Inguz: where there's a will, there's a way.

7. Psalm 18:33 "He makes my feet like the feet of a deer; he causes me to stand on the heights."

8. 'Ohm' tattoo that represents 4 different states of consciousness and a world of illusion: waking (jagrat), dreaming (swapna), deep sleep (sushupti), transcendental state (turiya) and world of illusion (maya)

9. Alchemy: symbolizes copper, means love, balance, feminine beauty and artistic creativity.

10. The Greek word “Meraki" means to do something with soul, passion, love and creativity or to put yourself in to whatever you do.

11. Malin (Skövde, Sweden) – you have to face setbacks to be able to go forward.

12. Symbol meaning "thief" from the Hobbit. It was the rune Gandalf etched into Bilbo's door so the dwarves could find his house.

13. “Lux in tenebris" means “light in darkness."

14. Anchor Tattoo: symbolizing strength & stability, something (or someone) who holds you in place, and provides you the strength to hold on no matter how rough things get.

15."Ad Maiora" is translated literally as “Towards greater things." It is a formula of greeting used to wish more success in life, career or love.

16. A glyphs means “explore." It was meant as a reminder for me to never stop exploring.

17. "Aut inveniam viam aut faciam," meaning roughly, "Either I shall find a way, or I will make one."

18. Lotus Flower. It grows in muddy water, and it is this environment that gives forth the flower's first and most literal meaning: rising and blooming above the murk to achieve enlightenment.

19. The zen (or ensō) circle to me represents enlightenment, the universe & the strength we all have inside of us.

20. Two meanings. The moon affirms life. It looks as if it is constantly changing. Can reminds us of the inconsistency of life. It is also symbolizes the continuous circular nature of time and even karma.

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I am Beautiful, and I am not Ashamed.

Too many women are ashamed of feeling beautiful; it is time for that shame to end.


I recently read the book We Should All Be Feminists by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie. In this wonderful, powerful, and quite honestly angry book on the condition of Womanhood in modern society, Adichie touches on the poignant idea that women are trained from girlhood to be ashamed of themselves.

"We teach girls shame. 'Close your legs. Cover yourself.' We make them feel as though by being born female they're already guilty of something."

This quote highlights something that I myself have been aware of for years and never known how to put into words until now - the fact that women, starting at a very young age, are raised to believe that we are not allowed to be proud of our bodies, of our forms, and of our physicality. Beyond that, we are taught that to take pride in how we look is yet another thing to be ashamed of.

Girls with self-image issues are told that they shouldn't ever feel less valuable or less beautiful than any other girl; they are told that we are all beautiful - and that is true. A person's value is in no way attached to how we look, beauty is no measure of worth, and all people are beautiful in whatever way that may be. Yet when a girl does dare to take pride in how she looks and say out loud, "I know I am beautiful," she is automatically assumed to be vain and conceited.

These two messages - that all girls are beautiful, but that no girl can ever admit that she is beautiful - are mutually exclusive. We cannot have both, and yet both are demanded of us. This requirement of simultaneous self-hatred and self-love are written in fine print in the contract we sign as members of Womanhood.

I am sick of it.

I am sick and tired of hearing my fellow women self deprecate their physical attributes and take shame in wearing makeup and wanting to look cute in their clothes. I am sick and tired of hearing them only call themselves attractive, hot, lovely, and worthy of admiration in the most mocking and joking of voices. I am sick and tired of us, as women, not being allowed to admire our own beauty without being ridiculed.

Because the fact of the matter is, I know I am beautiful. I am proud of how I look, and who I am. I have been told too many times by too many people that I am attractive, and smart, and unique. It goes against logic and reason for me to say, "No, I'm not pretty." I would be calling everyone who has ever paid me these compliments a liar, and I would be going against popular consensus and evidence in denying that I am good looking and a wholly, uniquely beautiful woman.

I am proud of how I look, how I dress, the makeup that I wear, and I should not be coerced into shame for that.

I - and all women - should be able to put together an outfit that we like and not be asked, "Who are you all dressed up for?" We should be able to swipe our makeup brushes across our eyelids and cheekbones and make silly faces to see how we look because we like it. We should be able to strike a pose in the mirror and say, "Damn, I look good," without some little voice saying, "Wow, feeling a little narcissistic today?"

We should be able to express ourselves and look good for ourselves, in whatever manner that may be, simply because we want to.

The trend of self-love is on the rise, and we (men and women) are continuously encouraged to believe in ourselves and know that we are all beautiful because we are all beautiful. But until we are also encouraged to express these new beliefs and embrace them as the truths that they are, how can anyone expect us to really believe them? We should be able to express the self-love that we are told to give ourselves. We should be able to know we are beautiful without being ashamed of the pride that we feel.

The truth is, people are beautiful. No conditions or contracts, no obligations or hidden fees. People are beautiful.

There is no shame in believing that.

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