January always seems to be a pretty bland month after the rush of the holiday season, so by the time February rolls around I am desperate for a holiday. Unfortunately, all there is, is Valentine's Day, and if you are anything like me you are probably not a candidate to celebrate. That's right. Valentine's Day is coming, and I am once again single. In fact, I have never been in a relationship on Valentine's Day, or any day for that matter.
The last time I celebrated Valentine's day would probably have to be in elementary school when everyone used to exchange little cards in class. Back then, it was such a difficult decision whether I was going to get the puppy or Hannah Montana Valentines and who I was going to give that extra bit of candy. Nowadays, all I have to look forward to is the sympathy chocolate from my parents, but being away from home I might not even get that.
Does my disposition against this couple's holiday lead me to despise it? No, actually it is quite the opposite. Valentine's Day may not be for me, but seeing others enjoy the holiday is the absolute best. My Instagram feed suddenly becomes ten times more adorable with everyone's date nights and gift exchanges. Plus, there is great outfit inspiration around every corner when suddenly every girl has exchanged her Lululemon leggings for dresses, skirts, and actual pants.
The Notebook on repeat with the girls while gorging on junk food. You might even head out for a manicure, because if no one else is going to, you got to treat yourself. That manicure may be followed by an impromptu shopping trip, because let's be real, that heart themed decor would look adorable in your dorm.
On top of that, nothing beats a handmade Valentine, especially from a little kid. You may have to ask them to explain their abstract representation of love, but the message is clear. Even if it is covering you with an unnecessary amount of glitter, it is the most precious gift. Maybe you got a handmade card from someone a bit older and that is as equally important. Some people may get a fancy dinner or a diamond ring this Valentine's Day, but that handmade card tops them all.
This is not to say that I am immune from that twinge of jealousy when I see all these cute couples. There are times when I cannot help but wish that it was me. Being a college student who has not even had her first kiss yet is not exactly typical. However, that is alright, because I just have not met the right person. God will bring that person along when the time is right. After all, I do not anyone to complete me and neither do you. A significant other does not complete you. Instead, they compliment you.
