Having roommates is a much different experience than I thought it would be. Maybe I just got lucky, and was blessed to have two such kind and responsible roommates, but for me, sharing a room with two people I didn't know before September has been an incredible learning experience.
Growing up with a brother, I was lucky enough to never have to share a room. My room was often a mess- what I claimed was due to my busy schedule was also due to the fact that it simply didn't bother me. I could happily leave papers all over my desk and clothes flung over chairs, and I would come home every day and continue to live my life in my somewhat untidy space.
Living with two very clean people, I have been forced to rethink the way that I treat my space. Our room is very small, so it is essential that I keep my things on my side. One of my roommates (you know who you are!) is the cleanest person I have ever met. I have no idea how we got matched up by the roommate survey where I checked off "somewhat clean" under cleanliness, but here I am in a room with someone who takes a Mr.Clean Magic Eraser to the walls. Now, I am not a slob, but it is not second nature for me to make my bed, and my desk is often piled with coffee mugs and papers and post-it notes. After a few comments about being "the messy roommate", I have been trying to change my ways, and believe it or not I feel as though I have improved from my previous state.
Aside from improving my tidiness, my roommates have helped me with time management and responsibility, motivating me with their early rising and hours in the gym and the library. When I see how productive they are being it makes me want to be better, and I already feel the results of their influence. They generously share food and clothing, cleaning supplies and school supplies, whenever any of us is in need. They are unfailingly kind- leaving every morning to "have a great class!" is the nicest thing in the world, and I appreciate it every time.
I have learned that being a good roommate requires the same attention necessary for any friendship, and that it is a constant test of responsibility and communication. Sharing a room has been a very positive experience for me in my first few months of college, and my roommates have taught me life skills that cannot be taught in the classroom. I many not start using a Magic Eraser on the walls, but I will be conscientious of what I can do to improve our space, and will appreciate living with two lovely people every day.
I came to college dreading living in close quarters with two complete strangers, but having roommates has been the best part of my college experience thus far.
