My article this week is about how we need to come together as a culture. I see so many people saying things like I like Marvel, oh well I like DC, well you're stupid. This kind of attitude is what is going on and it needs to be stopped by doing this we are pushing each other away not pulling each other closer. I feel that we have just lost sight of how we are similar and just focus on how we are different. This mentality of hatred and mudslinging needs to stop, the hard part is we have a president that bullies and downgrades people and countries every day. If we look at how our country is reflected upon by the world it is not good and that is what we are doing to each other on a smaller scale we are name calling and dividing ourselves from each other. If we start dividing ourselves from each other then we will live a lonely life filled with hate, if we actually start talking and informing each other we will be able to understand and live more harmoniously with one another. It is a struggle trying to talk with some people because they are so close minded but if we show compassion and understand we can hope that one day they will come around. That is why it is so important to teach our kids not to be afraid of our differences with one another and to love one another so that way they can have a more informed opinion and be open to what others have to share about themselves. Misconceptions start with stereotypes and not having all the information a certain situation or opinion, they end when we start talking to each and get the full story. So if we start doing that and stop seeing our neighbor as an enemy and start seeing them as a friend, we will live happier more fulfilled lives. All in all, we just have to remember to love our neighbor and also be the change we want to see in the world.
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Growing up, my mom would usually have to cook me a separate dinner from my siblings. Why? Because I was ridiculously picky and wouldn't eat the same foods as everyone else. Trust me, it gets old. It's not my fault certain things just taste gross, you learn to live with it.
1. You eat something you hate just to see if you still hate it
I'll take a bite of a burger every once in a while just to reaffirm that it still tastes like dirt. I just have to know. Don't even get me started on vegetables.
2. When trying to explain what you actually like to eat, people give you major side eye
Don't ask me about my eating habits unless you want to get into a long, confusing conversation.
3. Eating at someone else’s house when you were younger was a pain
You hate to tell their parents just how much you hate the food that they gave you. So, you sucked it up and ate it anyway only to come home and whine to your parents.
4. There’s one thing on any menu you always fall back on...even if it’s on the kids menu
Pizza, maybe. Chicken tenders, always.
5. Trying a new food is a very proud moment
It's like, wow! Look at me being all adventurous.
6. When you realize you actually like some new food, that’s an even more amazing moment
Crazy times. This rarely happens.
7. Sometimes it’s the texture, sometimes it’s the flavor, all the time it’s left on your plate
Oops. At restaurants it's either left on your plate or your order is very specified.
If I had a dollar for every time someone said "Traveling changed me," well...you get the idea. I'd be rich.
We always hear this, and if you're anything like me, the statement probably just blows over your head because you've heard it so many times, or you think everyone is overexaggerating. However, I came to realize that it's something you simply don't understand until you experience it yourself.
Over this past winter break, I traveled overseas to Barcelona, my first time in Europe. Of course, you prepare for how "different" things are going to be in terms of basic travel planning like currency, weather. Those sorts of things. You get lost in travel planning: booking tours, making reservations at the best restaurant spots, but what you don't realize is how amazing it is to simply get to experience and get lost in the general mood of a new place.
Getting to experience life outside of the U.S. and seeing what other parts of the world value is incredible.
While unfortunately, there's some level of poverty and inequality no matter where you go, the way many of the locals presented their outlook on life was amazing.
We went to a small bar on one of the first nights, and ended up going back two more nights (once on our last night because we had to say goodbye) because we had great conversations with the bartenders. They told us how throughout many parts of Spain, there are people who aren't as well off as others, but that everyone lives with what they have, and they make the most of it and always put happiness above all. They said part of this ability for the general population in their country to remain stable and happy, is that people who are very wealthy rarely show it.
They acknowledged that of course, there is inequality in terms of what opportunities are available to what groups of people, but that those who do live very comfortably always stay humble. They told us how, sometimes, they can tell based on how customers present themselves in terms of how they respond to the workers and carry themselves, that they're from North America and carry more materialistic items.
In many parts of Spain, they said materialistic items aren't necessarily as valued or prioritized, which also explains the happy essence that Barcelona seemed to radiate: Strangers would say hello to each other the streets, stop to give each other directions, or just to spark up a friendly conversation; something I never see in Chicago. Instead, everyone is on the go, with their heads down or headphones in.
Family comes first always, they said. Sure, jobs and money are taken seriously, but they're not always the number one priority, and neither is having expensive things. If you have a roof over your head, food on the table, and are lucky enough to spend time with your loved ones every day, then that is something they celebrate every day.
It was eye-opening to see how much the constant "on the go" lifestyle in America compared to many of the people we encountered in Spain, and how that's reflected in the cultural values of the U.S.
Seeing small businesses close every day for a few hours for people to home for their "siestas" and family time was amazing and was a true representation of everything that the wonderful bartenders explained to us.