As most of you know, the bachelor finale is upon us and for those part of the Bachelor Nation- it’s a pretty big deal. Personally, I am not the biggest fan of Arie, but I do love the show. Here is a quick cheat sheet if you aren’t up to date but still want to fit in with the rest of us, screaming at the TV because he’s most likely going to pick boring Lauren.

Our first finalist is Lauren Burnham. She is 25 and a tech salesperson who is extremely nervous for most of the show because she’s scared Arie will break her heart. There’s not much to her and its pretty painful to watch them but Arie is boring too so I guess it works. Arie also dropped the L-word to her before their Fantasy Suite night.

Second, we have Becca Kufrin. She is 27 and a publicist with a great, bubbly personality. If you haven’t seen the tweets about her hot ex that flew all the way to Peru to try to get back together with her, that happened and it was pretty funny when Arie’s defense what that he was a “nerd”. Many people are begging for Becca’s ex to become the future bachelor. Arie also said he loved Becca (no surprise since he was apparently falling in love with half of the girls)

Obviously, the finale ends with him proposing to one of them but apparently, there’s a twist. Two months after the proposal he decided that he was more in love with the runner-up and is now dating her. The real question is: were the cameras rolling for this awesome drama?I guess we can find this all out Monday night during the Bachelor finale!