An Open Letter To My Lifelong Male Best Friend | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Relationships

An Open Letter To My Lifelong Male Best Friend

Thank you for patiently waiting as I take an hour to pick out one thing at the store.

43
An Open Letter To My Lifelong Male Best Friend
Pixabay

Dear Best Friend,

It is crazy that we have been friends for thirteen years. Thirteen years of being buds, being each others go-to's, being each other's right hand, confidant, therapist, opinion giver, secret keeper, and constant.

Thank you for always giving me advice, even when it's words I don't want to hear. Thank you for hearing me out, when I know you have better things to do than to listen to me complain. Thank you for not acting like my "hard day" is irrelevant, when we both know you probably had a worse day than I did. Thank you for staying up with me until 4:00 a.m., listening to me say the same thing over and over again the night I got hurt by some guy. Thank you for the countless Walmart trips, car rides, check-ins, and heart to hearts.

Thank you for never making a move. Thank you for keeping our friendship completely platonic. Thank you for always making me feel comfortable and like I am "one of the guys." Thank you for explaining simple mechanical terms to me, because you know I have no idea what you are talking about.

Thank you for listening to my pointless explanations of my workout, the new recipe I tried that day, or the new clothes I ordered online. Thank you for being supportive and inquiring about my life goals and plans. Thank you for not making fun of me when my common sense is lacking, but instead slightly point out that I am not thinking hard enough.

Thank you for not letting the fact that we are polar opposites, and continuing to grow as different people prevent our friendship from continually growing.

Thank you for making the effort to reach out everyday, even when we are both so busy with out own lives, jobs, relationships, and goals. Thank you for still reminding me that you are a shoulder to lean on, a shoulder to cry on, and an ear to listen.

Thank you for all the wonderful memories made throughout the years, I couldn't have asked for anything else

Love,

Your (female) BFF

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Entertainment

Every Girl Needs To Listen To 'She Used To Be Mine' By Sara Bareilles

These powerful lyrics remind us how much good is inside each of us and that sometimes we are too blinded by our imperfections to see the other side of the coin, to see all of that good.

408071
Every Girl Needs To Listen To 'She Used To Be Mine' By Sara Bareilles

The song was sent to me late in the middle of the night. I was still awake enough to plug in my headphones and listen to it immediately. I always did this when my best friend sent me songs, never wasting a moment. She had sent a message with this one too, telling me it reminded her so much of both of us and what we have each been through in the past couple of months.

Keep Reading...Show less
Zodiac wheel with signs and symbols surrounding a central sun against a starry sky.

What's your sign? It's one of the first questions some of us are asked when approached by someone in a bar, at a party or even when having lunch with some of our friends. Astrology, for centuries, has been one of the largest phenomenons out there. There's a reason why many magazines and newspapers have a horoscope page, and there's also a reason why almost every bookstore or library has a section dedicated completely to astrology. Many of us could just be curious about why some of us act differently than others and whom we will get along with best, and others may just want to see if their sign does, in fact, match their personality.

Keep Reading...Show less
Entertainment

20 Song Lyrics To Put A Spring Into Your Instagram Captions

"On an island in the sun, We'll be playing and having fun"

279884
Person in front of neon musical instruments; glowing red and white lights.
Photo by Spencer Imbrock on Unsplash

Whenever I post a picture to Instagram, it takes me so long to come up with a caption. I want to be funny, clever, cute and direct all at the same time. It can be frustrating! So I just look for some online. I really like to find a song lyric that goes with my picture, I just feel like it gives the picture a certain vibe.

Here's a list of song lyrics that can go with any picture you want to post!

Keep Reading...Show less
Chalk drawing of scales weighing "good" and "bad" on a blackboard.
WP content

Being a good person does not depend on your religion or status in life, your race or skin color, political views or culture. It depends on how good you treat others.

We are all born to do something great. Whether that be to grow up and become a doctor and save the lives of thousands of people, run a marathon, win the Noble Peace Prize, or be the greatest mother or father for your own future children one day. Regardless, we are all born with a purpose. But in between birth and death lies a path that life paves for us; a path that we must fill with something that gives our lives meaning.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments