A Letter To My Future Foster Sibling

A Letter To My Future Foster Sibling

We love you already.

To the foster child that is going to live in my home,

I do not know if you are male or female.

I do not know how old you are.

I do not know when you are arriving.

I don't know where you come from, or what your past is.

All I know is this—you are in for a treat.

Growing up we didn't have a lot of money, but we were creative, so we were rich in experience. My mom was always creating scavenger hunts or games for us to play in the house— I hope you like adventure because that is how we grew up.

My parents are passionate about young people of all ages. They've dedicated their life to the education system and they have both been sports coaches at some point. With that being said they are already passionate about you—and they haven't even met you. I promise you if they weren't passionate they wouldn't have provided this opportunity for you.

Everyone is family. Kids and their parents are constantly coming over and we have social gatherings multiple times a week. The community is going to treat you as family—because you are now, no matter how long you are with us. This might intimidate you at first, but you will get used to it.

My parents and I will be passionate about whatever you are passionate about. Musically, athletically, academically, you name it! Whatever makes your eyes light up, they will support you 100 percent. That's just the type of people they are.

We aren't pushy—we aren't going to make you open up till you are ready. If you are never ready, that is perfectly fine. We accept you for you—and whatever it is you may or may not tell us.

I am almost a college graduate. Everyone who grew up in that house is grown up and moved out, so there is plenty of room. My parents have a lot of love to give—let them love you. It might take you a while to be comfortable, but they happen to grow on people.

I consider you a sibling already—no matter how long you stay. We cannot wait for your arrival!


Your future foster sibling.

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To The Girl Struggling With Her Body Image

It's not about the size of your jeans, but the size of your heart, soul, and spirit.


To the girl struggling with her body image,

You are more than the number on the scale. You are more than the number on your jeans and dresses. You are way more than the number of pounds you've gained or lost in whatever amount of time.

Weight is defined as the quantity of matter contained by a body or object. Weight does not define your self-worth, ambition or potential.

So many girls strive for validation through the various numbers associated with body image and it's really so sad seeing such beautiful, incredible women become discouraged over a few numbers that don't measure anything of true significance.

Yes, it is important to live a healthy lifestyle. Yes, it is important to take care of yourself. However, taking care of yourself includes your mental health as well. Neglecting either your mental or physical health will inflict problems on the other. It's very easy to get caught up in the idea that you're too heavy or too thin, which results in you possibly mistreating your body in some way.

Your body is your special, beautiful temple. It harbors all of your thoughts, feelings, characteristics, and ideas. Without it, you wouldn't be you. If you so wish to change it in a healthy way, then, by all means, go ahead. With that being said, don't make changes to impress or please someone else. You are the only person who is in charge of your body. No one else has the right to tell you whether or not your body is good enough. If you don't satisfy their standards, then you don't need that sort of negative influence in your life. That sort of manipulation and control is extremely unhealthy in its own regard.

Do not hold back on things you love or want to do because of how you interpret your body. You are enough. You are more than enough. You are more than your exterior. You are your inner being, your spirit. A smile and confidence are the most beautiful things you can wear.

It's not about the size of your jeans. It's about the size of your mind and heart. Embrace your body, observe and adore every curve, bone and stretch mark. Wear what makes you feel happy and comfortable in your own skin. Do your hair and makeup (or don't do either) to your heart's desire. Wear the crop top you've been eyeing up in that store window. Want a bikini body? Put a bikini on your body, simple.

So, as hard as it may seem sometimes, understand that the number on the scale doesn't measure the amount or significance of your contributions to this world. Just because that dress doesn't fit you like you had hoped doesn't mean that you're any less of a person.

Love your body, and your body will love you right back.

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If Shonda Can Do A Year Of Yes, Then So Can I



A few years ago, Shonda Rimes decided to do a year of saying yes, after her sister told her she says "No" to everything. It ended up changing her life.

So, I've decided to embark on my own year of yes.

Sure, it may be easy to say yes to everything when you're a millionaire with a bunch of record-setting televisions shows, but the rest of us can do it too.

Say yes to treating yourself.

Say yes to taking care of yourself.

Say yes to saying no, don't stretch yourself too thin.

Say yes to new opportunities

The year of yes is about taking better care of yourself.

My year of yes starts right now.

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