Dating in 2019 has become a thing that is equally frustrating and pointless because it really seems like all of the good guys are in hiding. How many times do we have to go after a guy and go on dates only to be fooled yet again by men who have no respect for women? I have become so fed up with the current dating culture that I am going to say this once and once only.

Assholes need not apply.

Do not waste my time and don't think for one second that you will ever convince me to settle because guess what, I deserve better. I don't deserve to be that girl waiting by her phone because you're waiting hours to text back or call. I don't deserve to continually put myself out there and be bold to win you over when you aren't even worth it, and I especially don't deserve your complete disregard and lack of respect for me.

You aren't worth it so don't waste my time.

Dating has seriously become a sport where I am taking hit after hit and making no goals. Do I deserve these bruises? Absolutely not and you definitely don't either. I'm taking this opportunity to stand up despite the pain I feel from hit after hit and say I've had enough.

If a guy really wants to get to know me and spend time with me, I will not chase him. It's time for me to start feeling wanted instead of forcing a guy to give me attention he will ultimately take away. I deserve respect and attention from a good guy who wants to be with me.

So, if you're a good guy who genuinely wants to get know a girl, hit her up but if you're just looking to mess around and drop her, don't even bother. Boy bye.