I never had an older sibling, and neither of my parents went to college. Therefore, I didn't have many people who could guide me as I started my freshman year at school. Here are six pieces of advice that I have for incoming college students as they start their incredible journey towards adulthood, independence, and success.

1. You are not who you were in high school.

It is so important to realize that in college, no one knows of your past. You have the ability to start fresh and become someone new. Any old reputations or rumors can be left behind.

2. Take advantage of opportunities while you can.

As a first year student, an array of opportunities are before you. Especially if you didn't in high school, join the clubs that you are passionate about. Become a part of Greek Life, or a community service organization. Take a language that you never thought you would speak. College is a time to explore your interests and who you are, and it is always better to start as early as possible so you can explore everything you can.

3. Your first love is not always your last.

If you are lucky enough to have fallen in love this young, and to have sadly lost that love, don't believe for a second that you won't again. Whether it is at some point in college of afterwards, the person you belong with is waiting for you. It just make time some time to find them. After all, the best things in life are worth waiting for.

4. Your college friends will be your forever friends.

Going off of that thought, you will meet some of the most amazing people in college. In high school and years prior, I never really knew or found the kind of people who were good enough friends. During second semester of my freshman year, I was blessed enough to have met people who I could cry on, spend a night out dancing with, and share ice cream with at 3 am.

5. Balance your school work and social life, you'll be proud of it in the end.

College is an exciting time. You have much more freedom than you ever have before, and it can be easy to get distracted. However, if you take classes that interest you, you'll convince yourself to become passionate about them. While it is important to find yourself in college and meet new people, academics are the primary reason why you are there, so make sure they are a first priority.

6. Cut your hair, alter your fashion, do something risky. Don't be afraid to take chances.

College is one of the most amazing times of your life. It is important that you try new things while you're young and have the time for them. Dye your hair a new shade or maybe get an extra piercing. Join a sport that you never thought you'd play or try a public speaking club. I can guarantee that taking chances and trying new things will help form you into the person you ultimately grow to become.