Dear high school self,
I am going to tell you now that most of the things you think are important right now aren't going to be once you graduate. Nobody cares how straight your hair is or how much your artificially highlighted hair has grown out. The amount of Instagram likes you receive on your selfie doesn't matter, so you don't need to get approval from every friend to post it. You also don't need to wait until 8:45 p.m. on Friday night (prime posting time in case you were wondering) to post your picture.
People's thoughts about you don't matter at all. If you want to wear those pattern pants, then wear them. Don't wait until your senior year to gain the courage for this. Ugg boots are over rated, so wear whatever pleases you. Also, don't compare yourself to what you see on other people's social media accounts. It will only make you feel bad, when in reality it is only the absolute high's of these people's lives.
That one C you get in chemistry isn't going to ruin your life, and that one test you completely bomb won't take away you college admissions. Get involved, but not too involved to the point where nothing is fun anymore. Also, dress up for spirit week, even if you are the only one in your classes that does. You won't get a chance again.
Drama is draining and negative, so avoid it at all costs. Don't gossip about people you barely know. Chances are they will be your new best friend. Volunteer and help those who aren't as privileged. The feeling is very rewarding. Do something that makes you feel good, something you are passionate about.
Don't waste your time on negative people. Everything happens for a reason, and people will constantly come and go out of your life. Also, when things get rough don't lose hope. Always ask fro help when you need it, and don't be afraid to fail. You grow the most when you don't succeed.
Boys are dumb, so don't let them ruin your life. You go through all the bad ones to find the best ones, so be patient. The best things come when you aren't looking. Always make sure to appreciate your best friend as well. She will be there for you during thick and thin, no matter how crazy busy life gets along the way.
Love yourself so much that you can't anymore. Always put yourself first because at the end of the day you are the only one who will. Try to live in the moment rather than the past or future. I know it's hard, but it makes things worth it in the long run. Lastly, just take this precious time in life to find yourself. This isn't just a chapter in life, it is a start of a journey.
