9 Ways To Survive When Your BFF Says 'So, I'm Studying Abroad For A Semester And...'

9 Ways To Survive When Your BFF Says 'So, I'm Studying Abroad For A Semester And...'

You’ve never been 4,752 miles away from each other.

When someone you’ve grown so accustomed to and see every day, decides to randomly go live over 4,000 of miles away from you for a few months, it SUCKS. I, for one, have a best friend(s) that is currently sipping (chugging) wine in Italy.

Thankfully, there are many ways to still be able to communicate and to make sure I don’t have to pull a Liam Neeson on anyone.

1. FaceTime Once A Week Or Day

If you don’t have an iPhone, there are other ways to see their face via the Internet, but getting to see them and knowing that they are having the literal time of their lives will be comforting on both ends. (Even though I wish I was with you)

2. Send Them Mail

Send them a care package full of sh*t you know they will enjoy, such as pictures of you guys, food, and other items that will bring them comfort in knowing that even though they aren’t in your country, you’re still thinking about them.

3. Distract Yourself

Still do your own thing from studying to going out just because your go-to person isn’t there, but maybe reassure them that you wish they were here, and when they get back they can make-up for all the lost time.

4. Cry Obnoxiously

I haven’t done this just yet, but this might help release some minor depression from the fact that you’re not riding on a gondola and roaming the streets of Italy with your person.

5. Make A Countdown

Mark down the days and find happiness in knowing that there is only 53 days until they are back in your country.

6. Plan A Trip To Visit Them

If you have a passport and are financially able to fly to your best friend, DO IT. Sadly, I have not had the chance, but highly recommend using this as an excuse to travel the world and also see your pal.

7. Plan A Trip To Return With Them

If you are like me, and not given the opportunity to go see them right now, make future plans to go back one day with them. Make an itinerary from sight-seeing and bar hopping starting now even though you probably won’t go back together for a very long time.

8. Appreciate Time Apart

You miss the hell out of them, and having them be gone for that long just makes you realize how much you really NEED them in your life, from the littlest things like rides to class or asking them what show to start on Netflix.

9. Don’t Watch Scary Movies/Documentaries About Traveling

AKA I suggest not watching the movie Taken or the Amanda Knox Documentary on Netflix because then you will think that they are in potential danger, and have a mini freak out.

Just know that they are getting the BEST experience of their lives, and soon you all shall be reunited and making the usual bad decisions in your home country.

Cover Image Credit: Kelsey Blaylock

Popular Right Now

To The Girl Who Hasn't Been Herself Lately

Your spark return, and you will shine like you were meant to.

Life gets tough. Life gets too much to handle sometimes, and those times make you stronger. However, right now, it seems like you have lost yourself.

It’s difficult when you catch yourself not being you. When you do something or act a certain way and just wonder, “what did I do to deserve this? Why is this happening? When will it get better?” The way you’re feeling is not so much that you’re unhappy, you just feel weird.

Your day will come. I promise you. This is just a phase.

The day you realize how much you have grown from this point in time will be your reward. It is so hard to see now, and I feel your pain.

Your light will return to you. Your pure bliss moments, they are seeking you. Your laughter where your tummy aches is in your reach.

Our moods change far too often for us as humans to understand why, but the encounters you make every day have this effect on us.

You must remember the pure happiness you experienced before your first heartbreak, before the first friend became someone you thought they weren’t, before you lost your innocence. That was a time of true joy as you had not a care in the world for the things that would harm you. Better yet, you didn’t have the option to experience them because you were just a child.

The world can be an ugly place, and your attitude towards life can change every day. One thing is for certain: you did not lose who you are internally. We all put on a face for the world. For the people who we try to impress. For the life we want to live. For the things we want to achieve.

Your definitive personality is still in the works. Believe it or not, it always will be. Times like this change us for the better even though we can’t see it.

Your happiness will return. You will be a better, stronger version of you. In fact, you will be the best version of you yet.

Once this phase is over, you will be okay. This I promise you.

Cover Image Credit: Megan Sutton

Related Content

Connect with a generation
of new voices.

We are students, thinkers, influencers, and communities sharing our ideas with the world. Join our platform to create and discover content that actually matters to you.

Learn more Start Creating

Day Four In Italy: Florence

This is the day we learned the history of everything


Waking up bright and early we first took the tour bus to the country side of Florence where we visited a medieval town full of shops that lined a beautiful countryside.

CountrysideBrooke Burney

We spent about three hours here just looking around, buying things, and taking pictures. Once the three hours were up, we went to a winery where they explained how they made wine with the grapes in their vineyard.

In the vineyardBrooke Burney

After the tour, they fed us lunch with some of their wine. Then, after we ate, we passed through their wine shop and took the bus back to the Piazza della Signoria. On the way back, our tour guide was telling us about Michelangelo and his time creating the Statue of David. We had to stand in a line for about thirty minutes but when our time came, we were thrilled. We entered and saw artwork from many different artists. However, Michelangelo had a hallway of his own that was mostly filled with unfinished sculptures of statues with David being at the very end.

Statue of DavidBrooke Burney

After the tour of the art museum, our tour guide took us to the square where the churches were and gave us a history lesson on them. He gave us a background on the pictures that were painted on the doors and what they represent.

Brooke Burney

After this tour, we went back to our hotel where we were able to go eat dinner. My friends and I went back to the small square we first went to and ate in a small pizza joint.

Italian pizzaBrooke Burney

If you ever go to Europe, keep in mind that they have a hard time splitting orders. As we were sitting at this table, we asked for separate checks but they made us pay separately on a single check, which was kind of funny watching three American girls pick through their euros.

After dinner, we went back to our hotel to pack for the next day. To the train station, then Pompeii!

Related Content

Facebook Comments