I have learned so many things in the almost seven years since my first Justin Bieber concert (insane I know). Yes, I was one of those crazy fans that obsessed over, followed and adored Bieber. Not only did I fall in love, I also learned surprisingly valuable life lessons. I cannot tell you how many people are going to see me post this on my Facebook and roll their eyes. I like to write about things I am passionate about, this is something I am passionate about… deal with it.
1. Everyone makes mistakes.
Bieber is a prime example of how often people makes mistakes, except he did it in front of the whole world. Being a fan from the beginning you learn that no one is perfect, no matter how perfect they may seem. He made mistake after mistake and after the whole world pretty much hating him, he tried to turn his life around.
2. It’s never too late.
Bieber is also a good example of how it is never too late to get a “do over” in life. No matter how many times you have fallen, you can get right back up and start over. He went from the most loved kid in the world to the most hated teenager in the world. But he came back from that and got to where he is today. That’s the funny thing about life after you’ve fallen you have to get back up and keep trying until you get where you want to be.
3. Character is key.
People will like you if you have good character. Bieber was not the most polite and understanding person during a few years. Being booed on stage isn’t exactly the best way to judge Bieber's character. Yes, mistakes were made and the spotlight was a lot of pressure for him. When Bieber changed his character around years later, the world loved him again and praised him for who he is.
4. Do not cry over boys.
I wish I could say this was different, but sadly it was not. The amount of nights I have spent crying over Bieber is very alarming and possibly disturbing. What I have learned from that is, even if you don’t end up marrying that one boy you want, your life will go on. You will still go on to do things and live your life to the fullest potential. In case you’re reading this Bieber, yes, I am still single and waiting for you.
5. Being a celebrity is a lot harder than it seems.
Everyone in our generation thinks of a celebrity as this glamorous life of parties and money but don’t actually see the struggle of it. There is no privacy, everyone is watching you and you have to try to be someone that the public will like and accept. Bieber taught me that being a celebrity isn’t glamorous at all, you are bossed around and pretty much lose the freedom of your life.
6. Rumors are never going to stop, but they will not ruin your life.
Rumors are always going to be a part of your life no matter how much you grow up. People say as you mature there will be less drama in your life. Rumors are “so high school," but that is not necessarily the case. Bieber has had rumor after rumor made up about him (aka fathering a child, getting engaged, etc.), but he never let that stop him from doing what he loves. Rumors sometimes can seem like the biggest deal, but in reality, they will not take over your life.
7. You don’t have to be like everyone else.
Being the most famous and successful teenager in the world, Bieber really did beat a lot of odds. Personally, I liked his music and him as a person for a lot of my life and a lot of my friends and peers did not understand why. After countless people telling me that I was stupid for liking him or that kind of music, I decided that I didn’t have to be like them. I could support and like what I wanted even if other people didn’t approve. I didn’t want to be like them because I liked what I liked and clearly, they all regret it now. Yes, it is too late to say sorry now.
8. Do not buy cardboard cutouts for your room.
Unfortunately, I have four Justin Bieber cardboard cutouts in my room. And yes, they are unbelievably terrifying. You feel like you’re being watched all night and wake up to a lot of cardboard staring at you. It makes you feel insecure about changing and being naked. I do not advise cardboard cut outs
9. Do not send death threats to Bieber’s girlfriends.
I was one of those crazy super fans when I was in middle school and I did indeed send Selena Gomez a couple of possibly life-threatening tweets to “stay away from my boyfriend.” I definitely don’t suggest this because, well, one, you’re going to get like 50 girls on Twitter that start ripping you apart. And two, you shouldn’t threaten someone’s life over a boy (even if it is Justin Bieber).
