​9 Reasons Why College Has Taught Me More About Life Outside Of The Classroom Than In It

​9 Reasons Why College Has Taught Me More About Life Outside Of The Classroom Than In It

College major: Life Expert.

I am sitting here trying to mentally prepare myself for the upcoming semester of school and doing some self-reflecting. I have three semesters left of my undergrad and can still vividly remember graduating high school like it was yesterday.

To say the time has flown by would be an understatement. Some days I want time to go even faster and cannot wait to have a "big girl" job, but then other days it scares the crap out of me that my days of being a kid in college are numbered. At the beginning of this journey, I was under the impression I was attending college in order to become a super knowledgeable businesswoman.

I have came to the conclusion that I may be able to calculate a return on investment and understand an income statement, but still have a lot to learn in the business world- which I am not stressing about, it will come with experience. Instead of saying I am majoring in Marketing, I look at it more like I'm majoring in life.

At the end of the day, that's really been what college has taught me, not the grades I received on tests and assignments, but how to navigate through life and experiences. Here are nine reasons why college has taught me more about life outside of the classroom, than in it.

1. Friends aren't forever

Chances are you are not friends with every person you began college with. Everyone is changing and figuring themselves out during this time, and people's true colors shine through during these years- and that's okay! Go out and meet people and be at peace with cutting ties for the ones that aren't good for you.

2. Take your expectations down a notch

Everything in life isn't going to be as perfect as you think it will be in your head. High expectations only lead to disappointments, be realistic about your views and stay positive whenever you can. It's okay if your freshman roomie and you don't turn out as BFFs, straight A's in college- probably not going to happen, the glorious college life that you may see on Instagram, it's not real. Stay positive and have realistic expectations people!

3. Love and appreciate your parents

Be honest with yourself, you were probably a brat to your parents in high school, but suddenly you go to college and you realize you're calling your mom every seven minutes and you actually miss them! College has made me love and appreciate my parents in a way I couldn't see in high school. Everything they ever did for me became so much more apparent and my relationship with both of them now is something I wouldn't trade for the world.

4. Take full advantage of nap opportunities

College students are always tired, I know that first hand. However, this is the last time in my life that I will be able to squeeze in a quick nap between classes. After graduation, there is no room for a nap in a nine to five job, unfortunately. Catch the Zs while you can!

5. Connections are everything

I have learned that it doesn't matter what degree you have and where you went to school if you don't know anyone. Politics are a real thing and making relationships and connections with people and businesses will take you much farther than nobody knowing who you are post-graduation. It may not seem fair, but its the harsh reality of life.

6. Try jeans on once in a while

The freshmen fifteen is real and pizza and fast food catches up with you quickly. I remember my cousin wrote a couple tips in my high school graduation card and I really should have listened to her advice that yoga pants and leggings aren't real pants- your jeans won't lie to you. Basically, I'm saying that college has taught me my metabolism is not as great as it was in high school and the days of eating ice cream for breakfast are over.

7. A boy is going to break your heart

At some point during every girl's college career, a boy will probably break their heart and their world will seem like its over. The worst is behind you and the great thing about being a young woman is that the world is ahead of you and the best is yet to come. College teaches you to pick your head up, realize you don't need anyone to be yourself and there are plenty of other fish in the sea.

8. Girl time is everything

There is no other time in your life you will be under the same roof with your girl friends. Guys are great and all but appreciate your girl time filled with getting ready together, gossip, wine nights, late night ice cream runs, and the good, the bad and the ugly. I have realized I can't get that time back!

9. You won't graduate a genius in your major

Like I said before, this has been the hardest concept for me to grasp- that college has not been for learning everything there is about business, yet how to experience life, deal with people, respond to different situations, live on my own, and become a better, well-rounded person.

This college experience so far has taught me more about life than anything in a book could teach and I am ready to soak up and enjoy the rest of the time I have left.

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1. Uniforms

Plaid. The one thing that every private school-goer knows all too well. It was made into jumpers, skirts, shorts, scouts, hair ties, basically anything you could imagine, the school plaid was made into. You had many different options on what to wear on a normal day, but you always dreaded dress uniform day because of skirts and ballet flats. But it made waking up late for school a whole lot easier.

2. New people were a big deal

New people weren't a big thing. Maybe one or two a year to a grade, but after freshman year no one new really showed up, making the new kid a big deal.

3. You've been to school with most of your class since Kindergarten

Most of your graduating class has been together since Kindergarten, maybe even preschool, if your school has it. They've become part of your family, and you can honestly say you've grown up with your best friends.

4. You've had the same teachers over and over

Having the same teacher two or three years in a row isn't a real surprise. They know what you are capable of and push you to do your best.

5. Everyone knows everybody. Especially everyone's business.

Your graduating class doesn't exceed 150. You know everyone in your grade and most likely everyone in the high school. Because of this, gossip spreads like wildfire. So everyone knows what's going on 10 minutes after it happens.

6. Your hair color was a big deal

If it's not a natural hair color, then forget about it. No dyeing your hair hot pink or blue or you could expect a phone call to your parents saying you have to get rid of it ASAP.

7. Your school isn't like "Gossip Girl"

There is no eating off campus for lunch or casually using your cell phone in class. Teachers are more strict and you can't skip class or just walk right off of campus.

8. Sports are a big deal

Your school is the best of the best at most sports. The teams normally go to the state championships. The rest of the school that doesn't play sports attends the games to cheer on the teams.

9. Boys had to be clean-shaven, and hair had to be cut

If you came to school and your hair was not cut or your beard was not shaved, you were written up and made to go in the bathroom and shave or have the head of discipline cut your hair. Basically, if you know you're getting written up for hair, it's best just to check out and go get a hair cut.

10. Free dress days were like a fashion show

Wearing a school uniform every day can really drive you mad. That free dress day once a month is what you lived for. It was basically a fashion show for everyone, except for those upperclassmen who were over everything and just wore sweat pants.

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To My Little Sister, Don't Wish For Time To Move Faster, Soak Up The Stage Of Life You're In

Live in the moment and you will come out having no regrets.


To my best friend,

Time goes by quickly, do not wish it away. Enjoy living in the moment you are in right now because you will never get it back. Stop wishing you were in college already because you have so much to live for right now.

I know all you want to do is get away from home and start over, which is normal because I wanted to do the same thing at your age. But as your older sister, and as someone who has gone through that stage already, I am here to tell you that it is not all rainbows and sunshine 24/7.

With the time you have left in high school, enjoy every second of it because eventually, you will come to miss it.

Graduation is just around the corner for you and it honestly freaks me out how fast time is going. And it only goes faster in college. As kids, all we wanted was to be in high school and be able to drive on our own and once we hit high school, all we want is to be in college. With almost being in college for two years, I can easily say that all I want is to be a kid again. We have been wishing our whole lives away since we can remember. Enjoy today.

I see so much potential in you and I am beyond excited for what the future has in store for you.

Many times, you have been the one to give me advice even though I'm the older sister and this shows how caring and loving you are. Life is going to treat you so well and it already has.

There is one piece of advice I must give to you though. Make sure to thank mom and dad and tell them you love them as often as possible. I know they can get on your nerves and may make you angry at times, but they have given us the best life. You will learn in college just how much they love us and how much they have given up just to make us happy.

You have a good head on your shoulders and I know life is going to turn out to be exactly what you wanted. Just don't wish it all away. Some of my favorite times were when I was a senior in high school.

I'm always looking out for you so don't ever think you are alone in this crazy world. Remember, I am just one phone call away.

I love you so much sis, you got this.

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