- 1)He never wants to hangout in (sober) public settings:
Does your man always want to hangout just one-on-one? Or, if by chance he does pick a public setting, it’s a party or bar where there will be drinking? Ladies, this definitely shows something might be off with his motives towards you. If a guy either only wants to spend time with you alone where a bedroom is available, or he only wants to hangout with you while you're judgement is impaired... He has got to go! I’ve dealt with f**k boys and I’ve dealt with nice guys, and the nice guys actually want to meet your friends and have you meet his friends, and they can hold a conversation with you while you two are sober and can think rationally.
- 2)The usual time he hits you up to hangout is past 2 am:
If a guy is only ever trying to hangout during the hours that most people are asleep, he's not looking to just sleep! And I’m sure during those hangouts the first thing he tries to do is get some action. Oh, and if he tries to give the excuse of “not having the time during the day”, please don’t buy it. I’ve been here, and I’ve believed those excuses- but the truth is, he has time, just not for you. Did he go to lunch today? Did he go to the library? Any other little things that he would probably invite anyone else too? These are all things you can be invited to if he really wanted to spend time with you.
- 3)He constantly asks for “pictures” - if you know what I mean:
Obviously I’m not knocking any girls who like to send some pics out, however- if you are always saying no and he is always trying to persuade you, that is not cool. Sure if he asks once that definitely does not mean he’s a f**k boy, for all he knows you’re into it! However, if he keeps asking after you say no, as my high school photo teacher would say- BLOCK AND DELETE!
- 4)He tells you every and any girl he’s been involved with is “insane”:
Sure some of them may have been a little off (even we have some stories about crazy guys), but if he says LITERALLY every girl he’s ever been with was a raging psychopath, there’s a pretty good chance they're not. One of the f**k boys I used to date told me his ex was completely insane… I met her, and now we actually always say hi to each other in passing. And guess what? She was definitely not a psychopath, and also was definitely screwed over by him just like I was. Ladies, we’re not crazy- he’s just a f**k boy.
- 5)His friends are complete jerks:
Ah, the saying “you are the company you keep” couldn’t be more true. I feel like as girls we always look at the guy we’re talking to as some higher person above all his friends, and we say things like, “I don’t understand how he’s friends with them. They’re horrible guys, and he’s amazing!” Girl, if he’s hanging around guys who are rude to women and just the general public, he’s probably rude to women and just the general public as well. Friends are generally pretty similar, and this is no different.
- 6)He never cares how you are:
Ladies, if he is constantly talking about himself and never even takes a second to ask you how you are, he’s gotta go. Also, if he doesn’t think about your well being- well then it's boy bye. If a guy acts like he doesn’t care, believe him- don’t look into his behavior trying to figure out what it means. It means what he is showing, that he does not care. You just have to accept that, and move on.
What I'm trying to say here is, know your worth and appreciate yourself enough to walk away from a person who treats you like you're nothing to him but someone to hook up with late at night. You deserve someone who wants to see you in the daylight, and cares about your well-being... Not someone who only cares about themselves and their idiotic wants.
