Here are some reasons why it’s important to try to display some romance even when you’re not a romantic.
1. Feel insecure about their relationship.
Even though it’s a materialistic holiday, being shown love through the small surprises that he’ll think you love will make the relationship feel more serious.
2. Girls get jealous by other girls.
The more romantic and ostentatious their man is, the more lucky the girl. This is because we love to feel like we are lucky to be loved shamelessly. We hate to feel like we got the short end of the stick.
3. We know that men often have a hard time being lovey dovey and sentimental because they feel “too girly”
But if you have a girl you care about, don't you think celebrating and showing your love is important? Man up and surprise her. Don't feel like you'll be judged by your bros because in reality, they're just jealous.
4. We will most likely take it personally.
It hurts our feelings to be surrounded by people who have what we don’t. We want to be spoiled by our man, especially when others are right in front of our face.
5. We’ll think if we’re not worth it.
Now it’s one thing to have great expectations for someone you have been with for just a few months, but we do think about our own position and what we mean to you. If we’re really upset, it could potentially ruin an already unstable relationship.
6. Girls will hold grudges, especially their unhappiness is ignored by their partner. If not acknowledged, girls will tend to hold back on their own love and appreciation which is never good for any relationship.
For the sake of two people’s happiness with one another… please show your woman some love. It will be appreciated, and if she doesn't reciprocate by showing you some of our love, then she is not worth YOUR time. Valentine's Day should be used to boost your affection from one another, so take full advantage as a couple.