Being a college student who hates to drink is difficult. Every time I get invited anywhere it almost ALWAYS involves drinking. If I don't want to go I'm such a "buzz kill" or I need to "live a little."
I'm sorry, but I don't see the fun in spending every weekend blacked out and and not being in control of my actions around hundreds of people I don't know or trust. Every so often sure it's fun to go out and just have a good time, but I absolutely do not want to spend every weekend destroying my liver. I just don't see the point, and if you want to spend your time that way then, by all means, go ahead.
But what bothers me, is that I'm shamed for not wanting to spend my time that way and if I don't go and hangout with people at parties then we just don't hangout at all. There's plenty of fun things to do that don't involve alcohol. Here is a list of 50 fun things to do with your friends that don't involve alcohol.
1. Go to a state or national park
2. Grill out and watch the game
3. Go to the beach
4. Have a movie night or go to the movies
5. Go ice skating
6. Have a game night
7. Go to the zoo
8. Run a 5K
9. Go to dinner
10. Play in a local sports tournament
11. Volunteer at an animal shelter
12. Go to a concert
13. Go to the fair or carnival
14. Have a picnic
15. Go get coffee
16. Go shopping
17. Go camping
18. Go stargazing
19. Watch the sunrise or sunset
20. Join an exercise group
21. Go to an Escape Room
22. Go to a museum
23. Go to an art festival
24. Go to an arcade
25. Play laser tage
26. Go kayaking
27. Play mini golf
28. Go on a road trip
29. At home spa night
30. Go get ice cream
31. Try your hand at some pinterest projects
32. Binge a new Netflix show
33. Make a podcast
34. Go on a bike ride
35. Have a baking night
36. Take an art class
37. Get your nails done
38. Make tie-dye shirts
39. Go swimming
40. Explore a nearby city you've never been to
41. Go through your closets and donate the clothes you don't want
42. Get some stress relief coloring books and go crazy
43. Go bowling
44. Go skiing or snowboarding
45. Go see a play
46. Go to an amusement park
47. Go to a food festival
48. Go get brunch
49. Go to a comedy club
50. Go to a sporting event
There are so many more things that aren't on this list. If you want to go out and drink that's okay, but please don't forget about your friends who don't like drinking. There's plenty of things you can do with them that don't involve alcohol and that will make them feel 1000 times more comfortable.