Ladies, we know why we love our sorority, so we need to show all of the fantastic qualities to the PNMs. We see the process that these girls are going through, and we have all been in their shoes before. They want to find their forever home just like we found ours. We need to keep in mind their feelings and everything that they are thinking about. We just need to be ourselves and show just how amazing we know our sorority is. Just be yourself and be engaged in the conversations you have with PNMs.
Remember why you love your sorority and why the PNMs will too. It is also easy during recruitment to get stressed out, tired, and as a result, get annoyed with the process as a whole.
Have fun! We know that recruitment can be an extremely tough process, but we need to remember that we are surrounded by your sisters while you are going through this experience. Remember the little things you can do to make it fun, and if you're having fun, so will the PNMs.
If you are being genuine, you will make real connections with girls and remember to have conversations that aren't only surface level. Forming real and genuine friendships is important, and not just ones that fade after recruitment is over.
Recruitment is and will continue to be very stressful, and it will be tough. Remember that this process is for a reason and you should enjoy it- smile, find things to laugh about with one another. You are getting to spend some amazing quality time with your sisters, so don't pass it up.
Focus on the conversation that you and the PNM are having. Just be genuine, and the conversations won't feel so forced. Engage in the conversation instead of just thinking about the next question that you are going to ask them.
