5 Things To Remember The Next Time You're Eating Out

5 Things To Remember The Next Time You're Eating Out

Just because I'm wearing the name tag, doesn't give you the right to be rude to me.

After working in the food service industry for over five years now, there are several things that just really irk me. Every night I come home with a plethora of stories of incredible things people said to me throughout the day. So here are five things I would like to remind people of.

1. Just because I'm wearing the name tag, doesn't give you the right to be rude to me.

I'm still a person even though I'm in a uniform. If you need something, ask. There's no need for hand waving, shouting and clapping your hands at me. The number of times I have been left absolutely speechless because of the way a customer has spoken to me is far too many – and I'm not often left at a loss for words.

2. Please, tip.

Seriously. Servers make under $3 and hour, and when you stiff on a tip you are really taking a bite out of their income. Also, in many restaurants, the wait staff tips out numerous people including the bartender, food runner and the busser based on their sales. Ideally, servers should end their night with at least 20% of their sales in tips, but multiple tables leave less than 20% or nothing at all, and after tipping out the three aforementioned parties, servers walk out with barely any money.

3. You're not the only one in the restaurant.

Unless, maybe, you're eating in the middle of the afternoon on a gorgeous day. The next time you're out to eat, look around the dining room. Chances are your server is running around like a madman, refilling drinks, greeting tables, picking up dirty dishes and everything in between. Maybe they're juggling two large party tables, or just got triple sat. Bottom line, your server is waiting on more tables than just you. So don't criticize your server for not giving you his or her undivided attention, because trust me, they're trying their best.

4. Servers have no control over the way your food is cooked.

I know this may seem like common sense to many, but there are still plenty of people who scream and yell at their server when their food comes out over or under cooked. Yes, we are the ones who click the button for some pink or well done, but we're not standing over the grill cooking your cut of meat.

5. Help me, help you.

Please stop staring at your phone for ten seconds and give me just a little human interaction when I come to your table. If you don't like something tell me. If you need another drink, let me know and I'll grab you one. Please don't just tell me everything is fine and then leave a passive aggressive note on your receipt telling me you hated x, y and z and then leave a whopping zero dollar tip.

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I'm The Girl Without A 'Friend Group'

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Little things remind me all the time.

For example, I'll be sitting in the lounge with the people on my floor, just talking about how everyone's days went. Someone will turn to someone else and ask something along the lines of, "When are we going to so-and-so's place tonight?" Sometimes it'll even be, "Are you ready to go to so-and-so's place now? Okay, we'll see you later, Taylor!"

It's little things like that, little things that remind me I don't have a "friend group." And it's been like that forever. I don't have the same people to keep me company 24 hours of the day, the same people to do absolutely everything with, and the same people to cling to like glue. I don't have a whole cast of characters to entertain me and care for me and support me. Sometimes, especially when it feels obvious to me, not having a "friend group" makes me feel like a waste of space. If I don't have more friends than I can count, what's the point in trying to make friends at all?

I can tell you that there is a point. As a matter of fact, just because I don't have a close-knit clique doesn't mean I don't have any friends. The friends I have come from all different walks of life, some are from my town back home and some are from across the country. I've known some of my friends for years, and others I've only known for a few months. It doesn't really matter where they come from, though. What matters is that the friends I have all entertain me, care for me, and support me. Just because I'm not in that "friend group" with all of them together doesn't mean that we can't be friends to each other.

Still, I hate avoiding sticking myself in a box, and I'm not afraid to seek out friendships. I've noticed that a lot of the people I see who consider themselves to be in a "friend group" don't really venture outside the pack very often. I've never had a pack to venture outside of, so I don't mind reaching out to new people whenever.

I'm not going to lie, when I hear people talking about all the fun they're going to have with their "friend group" over the weekend, part of me wishes I could be included in something like that. I do sometimes want to have the personality type that allows me to mesh perfectly into a clique. I couldn't tell you what it is about me, but there is some part of me that just happens to function better one-on-one with people.

I hated it all my life up until very recently, and that's because I've finally learned that not having a "friend group" is never going to be the same as not having friends.

SEE ALSO: To The Girls Who Float Between Friend Groups

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