5 Things I Want My Bestfriend At A Different College To Know

5 Things I Want My Bestfriend At A Different College To Know

I miss the days filled with laughter and the nights filled with McDonald's french fries.

Of course, we knew this day would come. We just tended to avoid the thought of it. All summer we were both asked what our future plans were, and we told them. Everyone was surprised, of course, that we wouldn't be together. "What are you two going to do without each other?" they would ask. In my eyes, nothing could come between our friendship because honestly I don't know what I would do without you.

1. I could never replace you.

You have always been and always will be my best friend. I haven't found anyone remotely close to you. Your personality is one of a kind, and nobody could ever live up to your sense of humor. Nobody could ever understand me and my crazy ways like you do.

2. I talk about you all the time.

It's hard to have a conversation about high school, my favorite things or sports without bringing up you and our friendship. Somehow, your name comes up, and I end up telling them about our 2 a.m. McDonald's runs or our pointless conversations in physiology class.

3. It's OK for you to make new friends.

Will I be jealous? Of course. There's no way around it, though. It's college, and you're bound to make other friends who enjoy the same activities and hobbies you do. You might even find someone you consider a best friend. And that is great. I would never want you to feel alone, and I certainly want you to have someone around to do the things with you that we used to do. Just know, I will always be here to do those things when we come home.

4. I'm not going anywhere.

Whether we're home on break or just home for a weekend, I'll be ready to take on the world with you again. We can do something crazy or just sit and talk. As long as we're together again, I'll be happy.

5. I miss you.

Sometimes, it's hard to get up and go to class knowing you won't be sitting in the seat next to me. I hate not being able to eat lunch with you and catch up on your day. Soon enough, we will be reunited for good, and I can't wait until then.

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Super excited to live by my best friend again (well... sort of by him.)

For anyone who knows me well, they know how much I love my family. It’s an undeniable fact that the people I miss while I’m at school are my parents and four younger siblings. I love our phone calls, facetimes, Snapchats, and random texting conversations, but something about not actually being there kind of sucks.

Sometimes I feel like I come home after six, seven, maybe eight weeks of school and feel like I have missed out on a lifetime. There are new memories, inside jokes, friends, girlfriends, everything. The saddest thing is when I feel like things are changing and I’m not there to see them happen. A lot of the time it hits me that being nearly 800 miles away changes things between me and people at home whether I want them to or not.

My brother Jack is currently a senior in high school. As he looked into schools, he always made a big deal about how he refused to go East. It always kind of made me sad when he would say this, and I would constantly make jabs, asking why he didn’t want to go to school near me.

Hearing that he had somehow changed his mind made me ecstatic. I called him immediately and the entire phone call we talked about how far away his school is going to be from mine and how long a train/car ride would take. Due to the fact that he is going to this school for hockey, we were already planning out how I could visit for hockey games and that, once the season was over, hopefully, he could come down to Villanova.

To say that I am beyond excited to be on the same coast, same time zone, and in the same general vicinity of the world as my brother is an understatement. I can’t wait to be able to visit him, watch his hockey games, and be his number one fan in all things prep-school related.

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Living Without You Isn't Easy, But I'm Going To Make You Proud Doing It

I'm gonna live a good life.

I thought you would be around for things my mom couldn't be here for...

But I guess I was wrong.

July 9, 2012: the first time I ever felt like my world was crashing. My mom had just passed away from a brain aneurysm. Everything was crashing right before my eyes but there you were, standing strong holding me up through it all.

From age 14 you were my rock. You took me in when I lost Mom. How lucky was I? Normally, kids went to Grandma's on the weekends, but not me. I got to spend every day with you and Papa.

But then, that all changed. December 6, 2017: I got the scariest text in the world...

"Grandma isn't okay, Emily, they are doing CPR."

Seeing that text made heart drop into my stomach and once again, I felt like my world was crashing... 30 minutes went by and finally I get news...

The phones rang... I remember not wanting to answer because I knew what my Papa was gonna say, but I answered.

The phone was silent and then I heard him crying.

"Papa, Papa what happened?" I asked stupidly

And he didn't say anything. I needed to hear it.

"She's gone isn't she?" I asked

And I could hear the pain in my Papa's voice as he said the word, "Yes." In the moment, everything seemed to not matter. I wanted to be with my mom and my grandma. I wanted to see them one more time.

But I knew I couldn't and I also knew I needed to not let myself crash.

I had to become my own rock. I didn't have my grandma to call when I needed advice. I had to do it on my own

And shit has it been hard.

But I'm doing it.

I'm gonna live a good life and make you both proud.

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