5 Things All Out-Of-State Students Know Too Well

5 Things All Out-Of-State Students Know Too Well

You probably felt a little bit different than all of your friends as soon as you drove out of the state.

Most of the people in my high school went to the exact same college, two hours away from where we grew up.

Some of my best friends from high school go to college twenty minutes away from their houses. They go home all the time, and they see their parents almost weekly. I go to a college four and a half hours away from where I grew up, in a different state, and sometimes, that really sucks. The thing about being an out-of-state student though, it that you get an entirely unique college experience. It's different.

1. You didn't know where anything was before you moved in

It' was more than you not knowing where each building was, it was you now knowing where the campus was in relation to an airport or the highway. It was always using GPS even though you thought you knew where the closest Target was ( you got lost once and freaked out and will not be making the same mistake again).

2. It took you longer to make friends than you wanted

There wasn't anything that sort of caused this, but you were a lot more self-conscious than some of the people who had grown up near the college. Once you found people though, everything changed.

3. You called home at least once a day for the first few weeks

You didn't have the luxury of knowing that your parents were a short drive away, and you tried making up for that by calling them all of the time. As the semester moved on, you started to call a little bit less, but for the first few weeks, you heard your moms voice enough that you could pretend she was down the street and not in a different state.

4. You became really close to your friends

Not just close to them, they became your family. They had to be since yours was so far away. You got a bunch more sisters and brothers because yours were in a different state and you just needed some brothers and sisters, They become your makeshift family, in more ways than one.

5. It takes you at least two weeks to plan to go home

You can't just decide to go home for the weekend like your friends do. You have to plan weeks in advance, check traffic, weather, see how many times you'll have to stop for gas. You don't go home so much because it takes too much effort, but when you do go home, you appreciate it so much more.

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To The Girl Who Isn't Graduating On Time, It Won't Feel Any Less Amazing When You Do

Graduating is something to be proud of no matter how long it takes you.


To the girl who isn't graduating college "on time,"

I promise, you will get there eventually, and you will walk across that graduation stage with the biggest smile on your face.

You may have a different journey than the people you grew up with, and that is OKAY. You may have some twists and turns along the way, a few too many major changes, a life change, you may have taken most of a semester off to try to figure your life out, and you're doing the best you can.

Your family and your friends don't think less of you or your accomplishments, they are proud of your determination to get your degree.

They are proud of the woman you are becoming. They don't think of you as a failure or as someone any less awesome than you are. You're getting your degree, you're making moves towards your dreams and the life that you have always wanted, so please stop beating yourself up while you see people graduating college on time and getting a job or buying a car.

Your time will come, you just keep doing what you need to do in order to get on that graduation stage.

Your path is set out for you, and you will get there with time but also with patience. The place you're at right now is where you are supposed to be. You are going to thrive and you are going to be the best version of you when you graduate and start looking for a company that you will be proud to work for. Don't look on social media and feel less than, because at least you're still working towards your degree that you are finally passionate about. You will be prepared. You will be ready once the time comes and you cross the stage, move away, and start your journey in whatever field you're going into.

Don't question yourself, and be confident in your abilities.

With love,

A girl who isn't graduating on time

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It's starting to hit me.

I've been in school, year after year, since kindergarten. Maybe even pre-school!

Now, I'm about to graduate with my bachelors in communication and I couldn't be more proud of myself. I'll say it. I often sugarcoat it or suppress it but d*mn it. I'm going to applaud myself. It was hard work. It took a lot of motivation, determination, (caffeine), and willpower to get to where I am today. I worked my ass off.

That being said, I can't help but think... What is life without due dates? What is life like without scrambling to turn in an assignment that's due at 11:59 PM? What is life like with actual sleep? Sleep? I don't know her.

Like I keep telling my boyfriend and my parents, I don't have it all figured out. At least not right now. But I will, and I'm in no rush to land my dream job right now. If anything, I want to take a year to myself. I want to travel. I want to sleep in if I d*mn well please! I want to read as many books as I want. I want to write till my fingers fall off (OK, maybe not that).

You get the jist.

I'm free. I can do and be whatever I want. And you know what? That's terrifying.

I'm lost. I've followed this structure for so long. Now what?

I don't have all the answers yet. But for now, at least right at this very moment, I'm so thankful to have been able to receive such an amazing education. And to be able to say I'm graduating with my bachelors in communication at 21 is an accomplishment in itself.

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