I still remember my freshman year roommate gasping, “You’ve never eaten fried okra OR grits?!” I hesitantly replied no, while simultaneously wondering if okra was fish or fruit. Apparently, it’s neither.

Though going out of state was difficult at first, I wouldn’t trade the growth I’ve experienced. How else would I have met my chaco-lovin' Southern belles or my winter-weathering Northerners who enjoy pond-hockey?

Culture shock is real, though. First, you’re mesmerized by the differences in talk, dress, and way of life. Then, you notice how much you don’t fit in and start missing home - and you sure talk about it. I remember dreaming about the beach, acai bowls, and sunny days. But, I realized I was comparing apples in Texas to oranges in California - the two just aren’t the same.

Fast forward two years later: I love my city, my school, and my dear friends. This place is home, thanks to the incredible people I’ve met.

Here’s why these out-of-state friends make life sweeter:

1. They leave you with people to love all around the world.

From this point on, you will always be missing someone somewhere. It’s a blessing, no doubt, but you will most certainly look forward to the outrageous reunions to follow.

2. They encourage you try new things and take on new adventures.

When your friends invite you into their lives, the adventure begins. Exploring takes on a whole new meaning - always say “yes.”

3. They give you a glimpse of a perspective outside of your bubble.

“That’s a thing?” becomes quite the mantra. From hunting season to monograms, you learn about new styles, traditions, and families across the states.

4. They leave you as a better person than before.

There’s no mistake that these pals have made an imprint in your life, broadening your horizons and your heart all at the same time.

So, I can only conclude that out-of-state buds are irreplaceable.