3 Reasons I'm Not Upset About Getting Rejected From Internships And You Shouldn't Be Either

3 Reasons I'm Not Upset About Getting Rejected From Internships And You Shouldn't Be Either

Rejection does not mean you are not good enough. It often means you are capable of greater things.

At the beginning of this year I was a marketing major, which meant I was required to do a full time internship the summer between my junior and senior year. This meant hours and hours of filling out long applications and making sure my cover letter included all of the correct information for the position. After filling out over twenty applications, it occurred to me that when I read the job descriptions, I was reading things that didn’t make sense to me. I was reading about large companies that had no impact on my life, and sometimes I didn’t even know exactly what the company did. The companies were ones I had heard of, but had no passion for. However, I needed a full-time, paid internship, so I continued the process. In the end, I was either rejected or hadn’t heard from every. single. company. It was then that I realized these three essential things:

1. These companies have not actually met me.

It’s impossible to accurately evaluate someone without meeting them or speaking to them. I have to remember that the companies I applied to are not rejecting me because of who I am, but are rejecting me because their application system filtered me out. Whenever we apply to a job, we have no way of showing how excited we are to learn, how quickly we get a job done, or how motivated we are to succeed, unless we are given the chance to actually meet with someone from the company. Even though I put hours of hard work into my resume and cover letters, I found it impossible to capture my willingness to do everything in my power to succeed in any given position. So I was not rejected, they just haven’t met me yet.

2. They were judging how well my resume matched their job description, word for word. They were not looking at my actual skill set or personality traits.

This may surprise some people, but when we submit our applications to large companies, we are put into a database. Our names turn into numbers and our skill sets turn into codes. In the first steps of the hiring process, we are being selected by how well we fit in, not how well we stand out. We’re essentially being evaluated on how well we copied their job description into our resumes, and often times these job descriptions are based on a fictional person that could not exist in the real world. It’s important to realize this, especially if you want to work for a large company. A good book to read on this topic is Designing Your Life. Knowing that my actual resume might not have been looked at reminds me that I was not rejected, I was just filtered out because I didn’t fit in.

3. Getting lost in a large company is not something I want to do, even if I am still young.

Gain some experience. Put yourself out there. Learn the ins and outs of business. Deal with real life issues. These are the reasons I was told I needed to apply to these internships.

I understand that gaining experience and putting myself out there is important, but getting rejected from these positions showed me that I will have to come up with other ways to learn more about the professional world. Getting rejected from not only one job, but multiple jobs, made it clear that I am not supposed to be trying to force my way into a large company that I have no interest in. There is safety and experience that comes with interning at a fortune 500 company, but I don’t want my entire life to be spent working somewhere just to be safe. I don’t want to spend my life working somewhere just to please my teachers or my family members, or even to please myself. I want my jobs, internships, and my career to have meaning. Getting rejected taught me more than getting the internships could have taught me. I challenge you to see the positives in rejection as well, because it might be the best thing that has ever happened to you. Getting turned down for these positions at large companies is something I will always be grateful for. I was not rejected, I was forced to find another way to succeed.

Rejection does not mean you are not good enough. It often means you are capable of greater things. You do not fit a stereotype. Your talents cannot be summed up on a resume. Your knowledge and drive cannot be put into one cover letter. Rejection does not mean you are not good enough. Rise above it, and create a life you deserve.

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I Am A College Student, And I Think Free Tuition Is Unfair To Everyone Who's Already Paid For It

Stop expecting others to pay for you.


I attend Fordham University, a private university in the Bronx.

I commute to school because I can't afford to take out more loans than I already do.

Granted, I've received scholarships because of my grades, but they don't cover my whole tuition. I am nineteen years old and I have already amassed the debt of a 40-year-old. I work part-time and the money I make covers the bills I have to pay. I come from a middle-class family, but my dad can't afford to pay off my college loans.

I'm not complaining because I want my dad to pay my loans off for me; rather I am complaining because while my dad can't pay my loans off (which, believe me, he wants too), he's about to start paying off someone else's.

During the election, Bernie frequently advocated for free college.

Now, if he knew enough about economics he would know it simply isn't feasible. Luckily for him, he is seeing his plan enacted by Cuomo in NY. Cuomo has just announced that in NY, state public college will be free.

Before we go any further, it's important to understand what 'free' means.

Nothing is free; every single government program is paid for by the taxpayers. If you don't make enough to have to pay taxes, then something like this doesn't bother you. If you live off welfare and don't pay taxes, then something like this doesn't bother you. When someone offers someone something free, it's easy to take it, like it, and advocate for it, simply because you are not the one paying for it.

Cuomo's free college plan will cost $163,000,000 in the first year (Did that take your breath away too?). Now, in order to pay for this, NY state will increase their spending on higher education to cover these costs. Putting two and two together, if the state decides to raise their budget, they need money. If they need money they look to the taxpayers. The taxpayers are now forced to foot the bill for this program.

I think education is extremely important and useful.

However, my feelings on the importance of education does not mean that I think it should be free. Is college expensive? Yes -- but more so for private universities. Public universities like SUNY Cortland cost around $6,470 per year for in-state residents. That is still significantly less than one of my loans for one semester.

I've been told that maybe I shouldn't have picked a private university, but like I said, I believe education is important. I want to take advantage of the education this country offers, and so I am going to choose the best university I could, which is how I ended up at Fordham. I am not knocking public universities, they are fine institutions, they are just not for me.

My problems with this new legislation lie in the following: Nowhere are there any provisions that force the student receiving aid to have a part-time job.

I work part-time, my sister works part-time, and plenty of my friends work part-time. Working and going to school is stressful, but I do it because I need money. I need money to pay my loans off and buy my textbooks, among other things. The reason I need money is because my parents can't afford to pay off my loans and textbooks as well as both of my sisters'. There is absolutely no reason why every student who will be receiving aid is not forced to have a part-time job, whether it be working in the school library or waitressing.

We are setting up these young adults up for failure, allowing them to think someone else will always be there to foot their bills. It's ridiculous. What bothers me the most, though, is that my dad has to pay for this. Not only my dad, but plenty of senior citizens who don't even have kids, among everyone else.

The cost of living is only going up, yet paychecks rarely do the same. Further taxation is not a solution. The point of free college is to help young adults join the workforce and better our economy; however, people my parents' age are also needed to help better our economy. How are they supposed to do so when they can't spend their money because they are too busy paying taxes?

Free college is not free, the same way free healthcare isn't free.

There is only so much more the taxpayers can take. So to all the students about to get free college: get a part-time job, take personal responsibility, and take out a loan — just like the rest of us do. The world isn't going to coddle you much longer, so start acting like an adult.

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Writing Saved My Sanity

Write it all down when you can't talk to anyone.


I love writing.

I have since elementary school, and I've dreamed of becoming a published author. I started off writing stupid plays in elementary school, then it grew it almost writing a full-blown novel in middle school. I have no idea where that thing went to. It was all notebook paper and bad writing. In high school, my writing was kinda pushed to the side so I could focus on school. When I entered college, I started writing small poems about my now ex-boyfriend.

I was scared to express myself to him sometimes, the intensity of my feelings for him scared me. So instead of telling him, I wrote them down. When I tried to share them with him, he hated it. He thought writing down feelings was weird and creepy. So I didn't share anything else with him. When we finally broke up for good, everything just poured out of me. What I couldn't express verbally, I wrote or typed out.

I always have ideas flowing through my head. They never cease and I wouldn't want them to. Writing gives me an escape, from stress, work, school, or fights. It gives me a place to vent and to be open with everything. This is a reason I love writing for Odyssey, not only has this place brought me amazing friends but revived my love for writing. I'm never without my notebook anymore, I'd get distracted in class by an idea and have to write I think then and there.

I love sharing my more personal writing with close friends, especially my poems as of late. I found that I have a voice for young women who find themselves in a toxic relationship much like mine was. I want to speak out and show them that you can grow from the bullshit. It may take some time, but you will be better.

Writing saved my sanity. It allows me to express myself without having to use my actual voice. Anyone who knows me, knows I hate public speaking. I tend to psych myself out leading up to it. My current projects include writing for Odyssey every week, I'm in the process of trying to continue my short stories, and I'm excited to announce that I'm currently working on my very first poetry book!

Writing has given me so much, and I'm so looking forward to making a career out of something I love so much.

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