Although 2018 Was Good, 2019 Is Going To Be MY Year

Although 2018 Was Good, 2019 Is Going To Be MY Year

I have a good feeling about this one.


What a year! It went by too quickly. I don't understand how that is possible. You blink and the year is gone.

2018 was stellar. I turned 21 and became legal. I entered my senior year of college and received Dean's List. I finally got a puppy, and she's amazing. I made the most amount of money ever this summer just from waiting tables.

I had my family, friends, and boyfriend to keep me happy and sane.

I had food. I had a roof over my head and a place to sleep every night. I had clothes on my back.

However, 2018 had its faults. Lots of fighting and drama. Lots of tears and unspoken heartbreak. Lots of confusion, pain, and snow.

2018 was great, better than most years ever were. 2019 is going to be even better, I can feel it.

It's real. Most New Year's Eves involve me saying the same thing, that it's going to be a great year, and a fresh start is coming and going to work.

Nope. Quite the contrary. It never worked, and I dropped my resolutions quick.

2019 is going to be amazing, though. I have one more semester of undergrad left, and I graduate with my Bachelor's in May. I am full-time student teaching and getting a feel of the real world. I am applying to grad school and hoping to God I get in. I am applying for a grad assistant position.

I am sticking to my goals. I am going to eat a little healthier and clean out everything. I will donate clothes and such to people in need. I will spend lots of time with my dog. I will start running again.

This is going to be MY year, one of the best years yet. I am so excited about my fresh start and push start to my future.

Happy New Year!

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The Truth About Young Marriage

Different doesn't mean wrong.

When I was a kid, I had an exact picture in my mind of what my life was going to look like. I was definitely not the kind of girl who would get married young, before the age of 25, at least.

And let me tell you, I was just as judgmental as that sentence sounds.

I could not wrap my head around people making life-long commitments before they even had an established life. It’s not my fault that I thought this way, because the majority opinion about young marriage in today’s society is not a supportive one. Over the years, it has become the norm to put off marriage until you have an education and an established career. Basically, this means you put off marriage until you learn how to be an adult, instead of using marriage as a foundation to launch into adulthood.

When young couples get married, people will assume that you are having a baby, and they will say that you’re throwing your life away — it’s inevitable.

It’s safe to say that my perspective changed once I signed my marriage certificate at the age of 18. Although marriage is not always easy and getting married at such a young age definitely sets you up for some extra challenges, there is something to be said about entering into marriage and adulthood at the same time.

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Getting married young does not mean giving up your dreams. It means having someone dream your dreams with you. When you get lost along the way, and your dreams and goals seem out of reach, it’s having someone there to point you in the right direction and show you the way back. Despite what people are going to tell you, it definitely doesn’t mean that you are going to miss out on all the experiences life has to offer. It simply means that you get to share all of these great adventures with the person you love most in the world.

And trust me, there is nothing better than that. It doesn’t mean that you are already grown up, it means that you have someone to grow with.

You have someone to stick with you through anything from college classes and changing bodies to negative bank account balances.

You have someone to sit on your used furniture with and talk about what you want to do and who you want to be someday.

Then, when someday comes, you get to look back on all of that and realize what a blessing it is to watch someone grow. Even after just one year of marriage, I look back and I am incredibly proud of my husband. I’m proud of the person he has become, and I’m proud of what we have accomplished together. I can’t wait to see what the rest of our lives have in store for us.

“You can drive at 16, go to war at 18, drink at 21, and retire at 65. So who can say what age you have to be to find your one true love?" — One Tree Hill
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If Shonda Can Do A Year Of Yes, Then So Can I



A few years ago, Shonda Rimes decided to do a year of saying yes, after her sister told her she says "No" to everything. It ended up changing her life.

So, I've decided to embark on my own year of yes.

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