2018 Was A Year Of Growth

2018 Was A Year Of Growth

A look past the VSCO filtered highlight reels of life splattered across Instagram and all the sarcastic tweets.


I closed out 2017 by reflecting on my year through my article, Why 2017 Was A Year Of Learning, so this year I thought I'd do it again. I love blogging because it's a more real and accurate look into my life. It's a look past the VSCO filtered highlight reels of life splattered across Instagram and all the sarcastic tweets.

At the conclusion of my 2017 article I wrote, "Cheers to a new year full of love and laughter" and that's what 2018 truly brought me.

2018 was filled with so much love and joy from so many unexpected places.

The second semester of my freshman year of college was a lot less difficult and I began to see my relationships growing deeper roots which was really encouraging. I felt more adjusted to living a thousand miles from home and I went on tons of fun adventures around Florida with friends.

That semester I took a step out in faith and decided to apply for student leadership at Southeastern. Feeling completely underqualified and unprepared, I interviewed for an RA position and a spot on the marketing team. I definitely didn't think I'd end up on Res Life but after spring break I found out I had a spot on Aventura's team! I was excited, super intimidated, but completely sure this was where God wanted me.

My first semester of freshman year I had really struggled with understanding God's purpose for me at SEU. I felt so looked past and so lonely at times. Becoming a part of student leadership was God's answer to so many prayers.

Over the summer I spent the most time alone, probably, ever.

I worked full time and took two college classes (and failed one, college math is no joke lol). Working over 40 hours a week and taking those classes clearly wasn't my best idea but you win some you lose some.

The last few months of 2017 were spent grieving the loss of two very important people in my life: my ex-boyfriend and my grandmother. 2018 brought me lots of healing and closure in those areas.

Having so much alone time during the summer really taught me how to be content by myself. I learned how to be alone but not lonely, and I have to say that's one of the most valuable things I've ever learned. I really appreciate the time I spend all by myself in my room reading my devotions, making music on the piano or listening to a good playlist.

I'm finding peace in my heart in the quiet moments rather than searching for noise to fill the gaps in life.

August brought me a new job, a new semester of college and a new family (shout out to the Ave team!!!). Still feeling totally unqualified to be an RA I was determined to put everything I could into this new season of life and God was so faithful, just as He always is.

Coming into a new semester I felt kind of dry in my prayer life. After a summer packed with so much routine heavily revolving around work and school, I kind of lost the spiritual momentum I had spring semester. Honestly, I was really confused as to why I was feeling this way. I knew God had called me to this position of leadership as an RA but I just couldn't hear His voice as clearly anymore. I was so committed to getting back to a healthy place so I could lead well. Through tons of prayer and consistency in my devotional life, I did, and it felt so good.

I'm so thankful for the happiness that 2018 has brought me. Every day I have been reminded that He truly knows the desires of our hearts and wow He has blessed me beyond what I ever could've imagined! He continually fulfills the desires I have to hear from Him in prayer, serve and lead well, and truly find joy each day. I have grown so much as a leader, small business owner and as a person.

Now for some self-improvement:

In 2019 one of the first goals I set for myself was to improve my art. I want to continue growing my small photography business as well as work on some graphic design projects.

On the real, one of my biggest goals is to give myself more grace and allow myself to feel my emotions. After a pretty rough 2017 I saw myself shy away from the possibilities of some relationships. I stopped allowing myself to connect with people on a deep level and definitely guarded my heart heavily.

I lost myself in the hustle of each day and every time I felt negative emotions just pushed myself to get over it and be productive that day. Don't get me wrong, I love the hustle of life and being busy, but hiding behind work to avoid my emotions was not the healthiest decision.

I've for sure gotten better about these things, but that's the long way of saying that in 2019 my goals are to be healthy, joyful and to steward my finances more responsibly.

Cheers to another year of joy, love and lots of sunshine!

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50 Common Pet Peeves

The things we love to hate.

Pet peeves - those little annoyances that get under our skin and we just can't ignore, no matter how hard we try. Although everyone has their own unique pet peeves, there are a number of things which most people can't stand. Not only do we hate these things, but we love to bond over how much we hate them. It is surprising how entertaining it is to think of all the habits and activities that drive us mad. Take a second to think of your pet peeves. Now read on and see if any appear on this list of 50 common pet peeves (and be reminded of those pet peeves you forgot you have)! Share with friends and see how many people can't stand the same things as you!

  1. Slow walkers.
  2. The word “moist.”
  3. When a computer or phone won’t load a page fast enough.
  4. People who talk loudly on the phone.
  5. Noisy eaters.
  6. People who talk while their mouth is full.
  7. Couples who sit next to each other (instead of across from each other) in a booth.
  8. Having to repeat yourself multiple times.
  9. When the toilet seat is left up.
  10. When someone leaves the water running.
  11. When a light is left on in a room that isn’t being used.
  12. When someone messes with the car radio or AC without asking the driver for permission.
  13. Whiners.
  14. Slow drivers.
  15. Rude drivers.
  16. Sunlight creeping in through the window in the morning.
  17. When someone says “gross,” “ew,” “yuck,” or something else along those lines in reaction to a food you like.
  18. Tourists.
  19. People who interrupt when you are speaking.
  20. Being referred to as “boy” or “girl” when you are legally an adult.
  21. Loud noises on planes – crying babies, angry passengers, videos played over speaker.
  22. When people watch videos or listen to music on public transportation without using headphones.
  23. Know-It-Alls and Attention-Hogs.
  24. Getting gum on your shoe.
  25. Tapping, fidgeting, clicking pens, and bouncing knees.
  26. Smacking gum.
  27. Sucking at a straw until it makes that gross vacuum, slurping sound.
  28. When people clink their teeth on forks when they take a bite of food.
  29. Dirty dishes in the sink.
  30. When you’re talking to someone and they won’t stop staring at their phone screen.
  31. When someone says to a girl “Must be that time of the month…”
  32. When people talk over a movie or show…then ask “Wait, what happened? I’m confused.”
  33. When someone says “No offense, but…” and proceeds to say something offensive.
  34. Being chased down the stairs – When you are walking at a decent pace, but the person behind you is late getting somewhere, and they are barreling down the stairs after you. You start fast walking and pray that they pass by you, because you don’t want to die by stairway collision.
  35. When people sneeze or cough without covering their mouths.
  36. When motorcyclists or truck drivers rev their engines unnecessarily.
  37. When your door is closed, then someone walks into the room, but leaves the door open when they exit.
  38. When you’re in a public bathroom but there is no toilet paper in the stall.
  39. Buzzing noises.
  40. When you’re watching TV and someone turns on the garbage disposal, blender, vacuum, or another loud appliance.
  41. When nail polish chips or smudges right after you had your nails done.
  42. When someone says, “You wouldn’t believe what just happened,” and then they refuse to tell you.
  43. When someone bashes your favorite book/movie/show, but they’ve never even read/watched it.
  44. When you need an outlet to charge something, but there are none available or none exist.
  45. When you are wearing sunglasses or prescription glasses and the bridge of your nose builds up sweat and grease.
  46. When someone wakes you up in the middle of the night or ungodly early in the morning and asks, “Oh, did I wake you up?”
  47. When you have a roommate who is addicted to the snooze button, or who doesn’t wake up to their alarms, but you wake up…every…single…time.
  48. Slow elevators.
  49. When people stand too close to you in line so that they’re breathing down your neck. They inch closer and closer to the point that you feel claustrophobic, even when you typically aren’t.
  50. When people bite or pick their nails and it makes a loud *click* noise.
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12 Ways To Save Money During The Summer When All You Want Is To Spend It

Saving is important year round, but it's most important in the summer


Over the summer, everyone normally has more free time than during the year, and that means more time to spend more money. Saving money over the summer is important, not only so you can be prepared to pay for things in the future, but also so you can enjoy your summer and no be stressed about how much money you've spent. Saving money is something that should happen year round, but it's especially important to do in the summer.

1. Create a budget

Starting the summer off on the right foot is super important to stay on track throughout the rest of the summer. A budget is something that you should have year round, but it's important to adjust it for your summer plans.

2. And stick to it

Not only do you have to make a budget, but you have to stick to it. If you don't follow your budget, you're wasting time and money, and it's hard to keep on top of finances.

3. Take advantage of student discounts

During the summer, college students find themselves with a lot more free time than in the school year. When you're planning what to do with your extra time, make sure to look if the place offers student discounts or not. Why pay full price when you don't have to?

4. Don't always go out to eat

College students tend to spend time with their friends going out for food or for drinks, and that adds up fast. If you have friends over to cook dinner, it can be healthier and cheaper to do.

5. Sublet

If you have an apartment you're not going to be staying in, or need to stay in Columbus, it's beneficial both ways to sublet. Neither way do you have to pay full price on an apartment, and any discount, no matter how small, saves you money

6. Take day trips

Obviously, no one wants to stay in one place the whole summer, but travel is super expensive. By going on day trips you get to see more of the state or city, but you don't have to pay for lodging overnight. It's a good way to get out without eating into your budget.

7. Walk around

Columbus has great parks and trails that not enough people think about using when they're planning what they want to do. If you walk around outside, you can spend as much time you want there and you don't have to pay anything.

8. Split costs with friend

Do both of you need a Hulu and a Netflix account? Why not share the costs and the passwords with each other, so that you both can save some extra cash in the future. This doesn't just have to be with streaming services, but it can apply to food and parking costs as well.

9. Don't impulsively buy big items

Maybe you've worked a ton recently to start saving for summer, or you have graduation money flowing in. You feel like it doesn't matter how much you spend, but it does. If you hold off on those purchases, and you save your money, you'll be in a better spot financially at the end of the summer.

10. Get a job

The obvious one. If you're doing an unpaid internship or your normal job isn't offering you many hours, then getting a second job where you can work to have a little more money can help you achieve your savings goal.

11. Don't be too hard on yourself

The hardest part of setting goals is when you don't achieve them. Even if you haven't saved exactly as much as you wanted, making even a small change can help your financial wellbeing and can be enough to make small changes in the future.

12. Don't force yourself to make big changes

Everyone's saving tips to Millennials are to stop getting coffee every single day from places like Starbucks. While cutting down on spending in these ways will greatly help you save money, it's not the only thing that will help. There's no reason to make yourself miserable in order to follow the rules of someone else for a small change financially.

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