Studying abroad has become almost synonymous with traveling. Lots and lots of traveling. If you also manage to attend a university with a long break, you’ll have plenty of time to wander. As a (temporary) University of Glasgow student, I had three weeks to wander Europe—and I got to do it with my boyfriend of more than two years. Though it wasn’t entirely on purpose, we ended up at the same school, which also meant we got to do all of our traveling together. Along the way, we had our fair share of minor disasters and awe-inspiring moments. I like to think that we learned at least a few things about doing Europe right:
1. Italians—or
maybe just Romans—aren’t particularly fond of toilet seat covers.
While our room in Rome had one, none of the public toilets did, not even at the Vatican. After they made the solid gold cover for the Pope’s very own porcelain throne, there just wasn’t enough left for the rest of the city. Well, probably.
2. It’s worth it to learn the local public transit systems.
Taking taxis and Ubers everywhere is not only expensive, it's also impractical. Before we started traveling, I was basically terrified of public transportation. We've since mastered a conglomeration of buses, trains, subways and trams in four different countries relatively easily. If I can do it, you can do it.
3. If you’re at each other’s throats, think about the last time you ate.
Was it awhile ago? Was it enough? Or was it a slice of bread six hours ago? You're probably hangry. Go get something to eat, because you're going to like each other a lot better once you get food in front of you.
4. Traveling can make or break a relationship’s ability to communicate.
Traveling, while incredible, is also stressful. Period. If you and your S.O. can't learn to communicate in difficult situations, you miiiiight want to think about a few things. If you do get it down, you'll come out of it a stronger couple.
5. When going to museums and pretty much everything else, buy your tickets online.
It's usually cheaper, and you get to skip the line or go in a shorter one. (Unless you're studying abroad in an EU country and headed to the Louvre—our student IDs got us in free.)
6. Don’t shy away from religious sites like churches and basilicas if you aren’t Christian or particularly religious.
The churches and basilicas in Europe are some of the most beautiful and stunning examples of architecture, culture, and history you will find in the world. St. Paul’s Cathedral in London and St. Peter’s Basilica in Rome were our two favorites, but no matter where you go, sites of worship are worth it. You don’t have to be seeking a moment with God to appreciate their beauty—and if you are, it’s going to be a great moment. Trust me.
7. Don’t wait to pee.
Public restrooms aren’t everywhere, or even readily available, in a lot of places in Europe. More than once, we’ve had to make a concentrated—and increasingly desperate—search. Always take advantage when you go to a museum, restaurant, or other tourist-heavy place that’s bound to have a bathroom.
8. If you’re traveling as a pair, sharing an Airbnb room is almost always the cheapest option.
Whether you're a couple or close friends who don't mind snuggling up, staying with an Airbnb host is typically even cheaper than a hostel.
9. You’ll get more out of each day if you plan your itinerary in advance.
We booked all of our planes, trains, and rooms beforehand with a general idea of what we wanted to see in each place, and planned each day when we woke up that morning. It worked for us, but having a real itinerary will definitely make you commit to seeing and doing more.
10. It’s impossible to see everything any city has to offer in just a few days.
Don't hop from city to city every other day. While some cities, like Venice, can be done in a day, most places deserve at least three full days—otherwise, you’re not going to really, fully enjoy what they have to offer.
11. If you’re traveling with your romantic partner like I am, it will make you closer.
As it turns out, I’m pretty lucky. The more time we spend together, the better we get at being together—just like it should be.