10 Signs You're The Mom Of Your Friend Group | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Relationships

10 Signs You're The Mom Of Your Friend Group

As told by a current "friend mom."

13
10 Signs You're The Mom Of Your Friend Group

Somehow over the course of this summer, I've been deemed the "mom" of my friends, by multiple groups of friends and by my siblings. It's gotten bad. But I've decided to momentarily take a break from worrying about others to embrace my motherliness and celebrate why I love my role as being a "friend mom." If you're experiencing many or all of the symptoms below, you too are probably the mom of your friends too. Don't be scared, we have fluffed pillows and freshly baked cookies. Do you want something to drink?

1. You find yourself trying to convince your friends not to do something so they won't get hurt.

"Do you really think sliding down the banister down three flights of stairs is a good idea? I don't feel like taking you to the hospital tonight."

2. Big day for a friend? You better believe they're getting a good luck text of encouragement.

"Hi! You're the best and you're gonna kill it today! So proud of you and love you so much!" I need to make that a shortcut on my keyboard.

3. A friend is sick? Nurse Mom to the rescue.

"Do you need soup? Or Sprite? I'm gonna go get you soup and Sprite."

4. Your siblings are getting ticked that you've begun semi-parenting them.

"Did you eat before practice? Do you have everything you need?"

5. Your purse is like Mary Poppins.

Full of not-so important things to troubleshoot problems. Bandaids, snacks, Ibuprofen, phone charger; all "just in case" someone were to need it.

6. Friends consistently ask you to remind them of important things they need to do.

Because they know you'll actually remember to make sure they do it. I got oyu.

7. You seriously struggle with wanting to help fix everyones problems.

You just want to make sure your kids friends are happy.

8. You watch videos like this one and feel so understood.


"Ooh yeah, that's me."

9. Friends have created a mom hashtag for you.

Embarrassingly enough, I do have one. #BasicMom for the win.

10. Your friends call you mom on a regular basis.

Not just in person either, don't think you're safe from it on Facebook.

In all honesty, my friends are the best and I love them to death. I don't mind being mom-like, it's pretty fun and I love making sure the people I love and care about are happy and well taken care of. They can keep calling me mom for as long as they'd like, as long as I don't have to actually have kids of my own yet. Yeah, no. I'm not ready for that yet.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Relationships

Power of Love Letters

I don't think I say it enough...

442825
Illistrated image of a letter with 2 red hearts
StableDiffusion

To My Loving Boyfriend,

  • Thank you for all that you do for me
  • Thank you for working through disagreements with me
  • Thank you for always supporting me
  • I appreciate you more than words can express
  • You have helped me grow and become a better person
  • I can't wait to see where life takes us next
  • I promise to cherish every moment with you
  • Thank you for being my best friend and confidante
  • I love you and everything you do

To start off, here's something I don't say nearly enough: thank you. Thank you, thank you, thank you from the bottom of my heart. You do so much for me that I can't even put into words how much I appreciate everything you do - and have done - for me over the course of our relationship so far. While every couple has their fair share of tiffs and disagreements, thank you for getting through all of them with me and making us a better couple at the other end. With any argument, we don't just throw in the towel and say we're done, but we work towards a solution that puts us in a greater place each day. Thank you for always working with me and never giving up on us.

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

11 Signs You Grew Up In Hauppauge, NY

Because no one ever really leaves.

16312
Map of Hauppauge, New York
Google

Ah, yes, good old Hauppauge. We are that town in the dead center of Long Island that barely anyone knows how to pronounce unless they're from the town itself or live in a nearby area. Hauppauge is home to people of all kinds. We always have new families joining the community but honestly, the majority of the town is filled with people who never leave (high school alumni) and elders who have raised their kids here. Around the town, there are some just some landmarks and places that only the people of Hauppauge will ever understand the importance or even the annoyance of.

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

Moana's Top 10 Life Tips

"Moana" is filled with life lessons that involve far more than finding true love as many other Disney movies do.

41418
Animated image of a woman with long dark hair and tattoos
StableDiffusion

1. It's easy to be fooled by shiny things.

Digital image of shiny gemstones in cased in gold. shiny things StableDiffusion

Tamatoa created a liar filled with shiny things simply for the purpose of tricking fish to enter and become his food. He too experiences a lesson in how easy it is to be tricked by shiny things when Moana distracts him by covering herself in glowing algae so Maui can grab his hook.

Keep Reading...Show less
Student Life

7 Types Of Students You Will Meet In College

You wish you could be #5, but you know you're probably a #6.

21163
cool group of lazy college students in class
StableDiffusion

There are thousands of universities around the world, and each school boasts its own traditions and slogans. Some schools pride themselves on sports, while others emphasize their research facilities. While there is a myriad of differences among each and every school, there will always these seven types of students in class.

Keep Reading...Show less
Featured

15 Rhyme Without Reason Greek Life Function Ideas

When you have no ideas for what to wear to this date function

321598
A dog and a frog
Healthy Pets

I am going to a rhyme without reason date function and I have looked at so many different rhyming words and I figured there need to be a new list of words. At these functions, there are usually at least two rockers and boxers and an umpteenth amount of dogs and frogs. I have come up with a list of creative and unique ideas for these functions.

If you like what you see, get a shopping cart going with these costumes.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments