Women Are Crazy, Men Are Clueless
Start writing a post
Relationships

Women Are Crazy, Men Are Clueless

Dating is a special thing that takes time.

935
Women Are Crazy, Men Are Clueless
Temple Square

As women, we naturally get a little too far ahead of ourselves. We talk, text or go on one date with a guy and we can go a little crazy. We have already tried out our first name with their last. We have thought about how we would fit in with their family. We thought about what it would be like to marry him and be with him the rest of our lives. These are all good things that we want to have in the future, don’t get me wrong! If I couldn’t see myself marrying a man, I would not enter a relationship with him. But we have to be careful.

On the other hand, men can be clueless. They don’t always understand that each of their actions, no matter how small, affect us women. It can be hard for them to realize that as they are talking to us, we are overanalyzing every single thing they are saying. When guys give compliments and text us often, girls can jump to conclusions about their intentions. Once this happens, girls do their thing and get way further ahead in where they think the relationship is going than the guy is ever intending on.

Ladies, this is why it is so important to guard our hearts. Dating is a special thing that takes time. We don’t have to rush into things. It is OK not to have a label for a while. Just get to know him and take it day by day. It’s OK not to kiss him for a few months. That is something special that should be cherished and saved for when you truly know who they are as a person. I know it’s hard, but try not to get too far ahead of yourself. And if you do get to a point when you both want to date, take that slowly, too. Keep in mind the fact that they are someone else’s spouse until they are yours with a ring on your finger, and respect that. If it doesn’t work out between you two, remembering this and taking the relationship slow will cause so much less pain in the long run.

Guys, realize that your actions do affect women a lot more than you think. So don’t pursue a girl until you know what you want and are ready. A man that knows exactly what he wants is so attractive and is a great quality to have. Make sure that you are completely secure in who you are before you bring another person into figuring that out. And know that every girl you begin dating is slightly crazy and has most definitely tried out her first name with your last.

In the end, the great thing about dating is that we can accept one another for all of our flaws and love - despite the fact that women are crazy and men are clueless.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Featured

How Long Would It Take To Mine A Bitcoin?

No one will give you the correct answer to this question because there are a lot of details that they need to know. But, you can roughly estimate it based on the equipment you have a few more factors. One thing that needs to be mentioned is that mining has changed a lot over the years.

16074
Mine A Bitcoin

they need to know. But, you can roughly estimate it based on the equipment you have a few more factors. One thing that needs to be mentioned is that mining has changed a lot over the years.

Keep Reading... Show less
Featured

5 Cakes You Need to Try This Winter

Spending the winter trying different cakes can be a great way to combat seasonal depression. Lift the spirits of your entire family by trying these five cakes.

31313
Try This Winter

The winter can be a dull time spent indoors with very little change. But, it doesn't have to be that way. There are plenty of ways to spice up your daily routine, and dessert is one of them.

Keep Reading... Show less
Featured

5 Reasons to Consider a Career as a Defense Lawyer

Lawyers are supposed to be unbiased. Lawyers are trained to look at both sides of an issue and give equal weight to each side. It is meant to be their mantra, "My client is innocent until proven guilty."

103875
Career as a Defense Lawyer

Lawyers are supposed to be unbiased. Lawyers are trained to look at both sides of an issue and give equal weight to each side. It is meant to be their mantra, "My client is innocent until proven guilty." But if you're thinking about becoming a defense attorney, it's not this pretty simple. Defense lawyers argue that their clients are innocent because they don't want their actions to seem suspect in any way. They essentially say for the sake of the argument itself. If you're trying to decide whether or not becoming a defense attorney is something you would like to do, here are five reasons why it's worth considering:

Keep Reading... Show less
Featured

What Everyone Should Know About Online Degrees

Nowadays, many working adults, high school graduates, and retired lifelong learners are choosing to advance their careers, lives, and personal knowledge by completing school at home.

201899
Online Degrees

The rising popularity of online college and graduate school degrees has completely changed the face of education and student life. It's no longer necessary to pack up all your belongings and head off to a distant locale in order to earn a diploma. Nowadays, many working adults, high school graduates, and retired lifelong learners are choosing to advance their careers, lives, and personal knowledge by completing school at home.

Keep Reading... Show less
Featured

What I am thankful for

I am saying one thing that I am thankful each day for until Thanksgiving. You try it to it will bring you joy.

150092
It's Thanksgiving time
Element5 Digital

November 1st, I am thankful for God and Jesus. I put my faith in them, they protect and help me through the happy and the sad in life. I could not imagine a world without them.

Keep Reading... Show less
Facebook Comments