10 Things I Don't Care About But Other People Will Absolutely THROW DOWN Over

10 Things I Don't Care About But Other People Will Absolutely THROW DOWN Over

Don't yell at me.


If you follow the news, you know that this week has been a tumultuous one. Children locked in cages by the government and more and more questions but no answers, a wave of people exposing themselves as abuse apologists in the wake of a rapper's death, the list goes on.

There's a lot to care about and give our attention to but constantly exposing ourselves to this type of news can be exhausting. I struggled to find something to write about this week; what could I possibly say that would matter more than all of that? Nothing. Instead, I'm giving myself — and you — a short break from the chaos by sharing what exactly I don't care about in a way that isn't so serious.

1. Having a "perfect summer bod"

If I had a dollar for every time I heard or read someone talking about how to get a summer/beach ready body, I would be able to afford the plastic surgery to get one. Confidence is one thing but constantly perpetuating the idea that a "summer body" is limited to a size small? Not interested.

2. Anybody's positive opinion on Trump

New revelations about Trump and his administration come out nearly every day now and none of them are positive. They're all horrendous and further contribute to the concerns many of us had during the election and create more concerns that we weren't even prepared for. So no, I don't care for anyone telling me how great he is for doing X and Y, I promise you I'm not listening. This doesn't come from a place of moral superiority, rather a frustration with those who attempt to justify the harm he's enacting.

3. Unwarranted thoughts on other people's bodies

Twitter is notorious for fat-shaming and it's almost always targeted at women. Someone will post a picture of their body (with confidence!) and suddenly everybody on Twitter becomes a doctor. Let people post their selfies and go without giving them health advice that wasn't asked for!

4. Complaints about Pride Month

The "straight pride" that homophobes seek out takes place literally every other month besides this one and y'all are still trying to shame LGBTQ+ folks for celebrating their identities a little more loudly in June?

5. Snapchat streaks

Can somebody tell me the point of these? What's the significance of a streak if the only conversation exchanged is blurry snaps at midnight that just say "streak?

6. Older people's displeasure with tattoos and piercings

I wonder where this obsession with what other people do to their bodies comes from. Tattoos can be meaningful and important or they can be impulsive and flippant; either way, they're a method of self expression, as are piercings. If you don't like them, that's fine, don't get them then! But don't judge someone based off of one look at their body modifications.

7. Why the Beatles are "legends"

No further comments.

8. Getting a tan

Another summer activity that's deemed necessary that I just don't understand. Maybe I'm bitter that all I can do is burn or perhaps it stems from my eternal fear of getting skin cancer.

9. Why your sexual predator of a friend isn't "that bad"

Friends show their true colors in situations like these. Exposing someone in your inner circle as a predator can be difficult but in the aftermath, it's obvious who is a true friend and who isn't. "Friends" who care more about their weekend plans than associating themselves with a predator and leaving other friends in a position to be harmed are rape/abuse apologists. The excuses are endless but the compassion and logic just isn't there. Drop them!

10. "That dress is a little short..."

I'm recognizing a theme here, are you? The woman you're eyeing in the mall isn't going to change her outfit just because you think it's too short. And telling me that certainly isn't going to magically make it longer, hate to break it to you.

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30 Things I'd Rather Be Than 'Pretty'

Because "pretty" is so overrated.

Nowadays, we put so much emphasis on our looks. We focus so much on the outside that we forget to really focus on what matters. I was inspired by a list that I found online of "Things I Would Rather Be Called Instead Of Pretty," so I made my own version. Here is a list of things that I would rather be than "pretty."

1. Captivating

I want one glance at me to completely steal your breath away.

2. Magnetic

I want people to feel drawn to me. I want something to be different about me that people recognize at first glance.

3. Raw

I want to be real. Vulnerable. Completely, genuinely myself.

4. Intoxicating

..and I want you addicted.

5. Humble

I want to recognize my abilities, but not be boastful or proud.

6. Exemplary

I want to stand out.

7. Loyal

I want to pride myself on sticking out the storm.

8. Fascinating

I want you to be hanging on every word I say.

9. Empathetic

I want to be able to feel your pain, so that I can help you heal.

10. Vivacious

I want to be the life of the party.

11. Reckless

I want to be crazy. Thrilling. Unpredictable. I want to keep you guessing, keep your heart pounding, and your blood rushing.

12. Philanthropic

I want to give.

13. Philosophical

I want to ask the tough questions that get you thinking about the purpose of our beating hearts.

14. Loving

When my name is spoken, I want my tenderness to come to mind.

15. Quaintrelle

I want my passion to ooze out of me.

16. Belesprit

I want to be quick. Witty. Always on my toes.

17. Conscientious

I want to always be thinking of others.

18. Passionate

...and I want people to know what my passions are.

19. Alluring

I want to be a woman who draws people in.

20. Kind

Simply put, I want to be pleasant and kind.

21. Selcouth

Even if you've known me your whole life, I want strange, yet marvelous. Rare and wondrous.

22. Pierian

From the way I move to the way I speak, I want to be poetic.

23. Esoteric

Do not mistake this. I do not want to be misunderstood. But rather I'd like to keep my circle small and close. I don't want to be an average, everyday person.

24. Authentic

I don't want anyone to ever question whether I am being genuine or telling the truth.

25. Novaturient

..about my own life. I never want to settle for good enough. Instead I always want to seek to make a positive change.

26. Observant

I want to take all of life in.

27. Peart

I want to be honestly in good spirits at all times.

28. Romantic

Sure, I want to be a little old school in this sense.

29. Elysian

I want to give you the same feeling that you get in paradise.

30. Curious

And I never want to stop searching for answers.
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In The Words Of Casting Crowns, My Life Will Be For 'Only Jesus'

"Only Jesus" by Casting Crowns has inspired me to live my life for Jesus.


When I watch the music video for Casting Crowns "Only Jesus" I am reminded of the reason why we are on this earth, alive, breathing air through our lungs, our hearts beating, and time going on and on.

We are on this earth, not to seek our own glory, our own accolades, and our own selfish greed, but to know God, love God, and to make Him known in this world, through sharing how God's son Jesus has set us free from our sinful lives and has resurrected us spiritually.

At the beginning of the video, we see Mark Hall, the lead singer of Casting Crowns, driving down a road, eventually driving into a junkyard. The junkyard is both a setting for the music video and an allegory. The junkyard is allegorical to show that everything we obtain in this world, both material things and in achieving our own selfish pursuits of self-glory, self-pride, and self-adulation, will one day rot away and decay into nothingness.

No one will remember you in 500 years when you are dead and gone. The only exception to this is if you do something spectacular with your life that makes you famous. Only then will people remember what you did, not the person that you really was.

But living for Jesus and dedicating our lives to the "good fight" is the everlasting legacy we should pass on.

We should be remembered how we dedicated every minute of our lives being fishers of men for Jesus. When Christian men and women live this way, their children learn about God's love, which in turn causes them to surrender their lives to God, then passing God's love to their children, repeating this infinite loop of love for all time until Jesus comes back. Only Jesus is eternal. Only His love is eternal.

So when I die, "I don't want to leave a legacy. I don't care if they remember me, only Jesus."

Because my Lord Jesus Christ, God the Father, and the Holy Spirit is the only thing that matters.

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