13 Little Actions That Mean 'I Love You' Without Just Coming Out And Saying So

13 Little Actions That Mean 'I Love You' Without Just Coming Out And Saying So

It's not just those three words that show how much someone cares.

There are several different things that people may say to show that they care.

Whether it's a friend, significant other or family member we all have different ways of saying, "I love you."

Love can be expressed in many different words and actions, so pay attention to these things because someone might just be trying to show that they care.

1. What are your plans for the day?

Maybe they're checking so that they know what to worry about during the day. Maybe they have something they want to do with you if you're available.

Maybe they just care about you.

2. Stay warm

I'll be the first to admit I don't like wearing socks or slippers in the house, but I know my mom tells me to because she loves me and doesn't want me to be miserable.

3. Be careful!

Be careful because I care about you and don't want you to end up hurting yourself.

Sometimes, we have to learn things the hard way, but all those times someone told us to be careful are because they don't want us to have to.

4. Have a good day

Don't be negative when someone wishes you a good day! You may end up ruining their day along with your own.

5. Get home safely

Maybe they ask because they care about you and want to know if they need to form a search party to find you.

6. This reminded me of you

Someone taking the time out of their day to show you something, no matter how random, because it reminded them of you? Yeah, they care about you.

7. How was your day?

They're probably not asking for every detail of what you did, but they probably do care about what happened during the day and how it made you feel.

8. Do you want to try a bite?

Maybe it's because you've been staring at their food, maybe it's because they care enough to think that you might like what they're eating so they offer some to you.

9. I believe in you

Maybe they heard your pep talk in the bathroom, maybe they know that you're stressed about something. Either way, they care.

10. Go to sleep

You might have 20 things left on your to-do list, but they won't get done very effectively if you can barely stay awake to do them.

No amount of makeup can cover how tired you are, people can tell when you need sleep.

11. You can be yourself without judgment

You know someone truly cares and loves you when you can be yourself and not have to fear being judged by them.

12. It's about the smiles per gallon, not the miles

Whether you live miles away from a significant other, friend or family member it doesn't matter how far away you are... if they truly care the distance disappears.

(It still doesn't hurt to call them once and a while though!)

13. They don't care how miserable you are, they just want you to be better again

Even if it means they have to be miserable with you until you get better.

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To The Person Who Feels Suicidal But Doesn't Want To Die

Suicidal thoughts are not black and white.

Everyone assumes that if you have suicidal thoughts that means you want to die.

From an outside perspective, suicidal thoughts are rarely looked into deeper than the surface level. Either you have suicidal thoughts and you want to die, or you don't have suicidal thoughts and you want to live. What most people don't understand is that people live in between those two statements, I for one am one of them.

I've had suicidal thoughts since I was a kid.

My first recollection of it was when I came home after school one day and got in trouble, and while I was just sitting in the dining room I kept thinking, “I wonder what it would be like to take a knife from the kitchen and just shove it into my stomach." I didn't want to die, or even hurt myself for that matter. But those thoughts haven't stopped since.

I've thought about going into the bathroom and taking every single pill I could find and just drifting to sleep and never waking back up, I've thought about hurting myself to take the pain away, just a few days ago on my way to work I thought about driving my car straight into a tree. But I didn't. Why? Because even though that urge was so strong, I didn't want to die. I still don't, I don't want my life to end.

I don't think I've ever told anyone about these feelings. I don't want others to worry because the first thing anyone thinks when you tell them you have thoughts about hurting or killing yourself is that you're absolutely going to do it and they begin to panic. Yes, I have suicidal thoughts, but I don't want to die.

It's a confusing feeling, it's a scary feeling.

When the depression takes over you feel like you aren't in control. It's like you're drowning.

Every bad memory, every single thing that hurt you, every bad thing you've ever done comes back and grabs you by the ankle and drags you back under the water just as you're about the reach the surface. It's suffocating and not being able to do anything about it.

The hardest part is you never know when these thoughts are going to come. Some days you're just so happy and can't believe how good your life is, and the very next day you could be alone in a dark room unable to see because of the tears welling up in your eyes and thinking you'd be better off dead.

You feel alone, you feel like a burden to everyone around you, you feel like the world would be better off without you. I wish it was something I could just turn off but I can't, no matter how hard I try.

These feelings come in waves.

It feels like you're swimming and the sun is shining and you're having a great time until a wave comes and sucks you under into the darkness of the water. No matter how hard you try to reach the surface again a new wave comes and hits you back under again, and again, and again.

And then it just stops.

But you never know when the next wave is going to come. You never know when you're going to be sucked back under.

I always wondered if I was the only one like this.

It didn't make any sense to me, how did I think about suicide so often but not want to die? But I was thinking about it in black and white, I thought I wasn't allowed to have those feelings since I wasn't going to act on them. But then I read articles much like this one and I realized I'm not the only one. Suicidal thoughts aren't black and white, and my feelings are valid.

To everyone who feels this way, you aren't alone.

I thought I was for the longest time, I thought I was the only one who felt this way and I didn't understand how I could feel this way. But please, I implore you to talk to someone, anyone, about the way you're feeling, whether it be a family member, significant other, a friend, a therapist.

My biggest mistake all these years was never telling anyone how I feel in fear that they would either brush me off because “who could be suicidal but not want to die?" or panic and try to commit me to a hospital or something. Writing this article has been the greatest feeling of relief I've felt in a long time, talking about it helps. I know it's scary to tell people how you're feeling, but you're not alone and you don't have to go through this alone.

Suicidal thoughts aren't black and white, your feelings are valid, and there are people here for you. You are not alone.

If you or someone you know is experiencing suicidal thoughts, call the National Suicide Prevention Hotline — 1-800-273-8255

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The Nike Controversy that Makes no Sense

Nike has been facing backlash recently, for reasons I just cannot understand.


Nike recently released a plus sized workout clothing line, equipped with beautiful plus size mannequins to advertise their brand. Instead of many in the fitness community rejoicing in this milestone, Nike is facing criticism because people believe that Nike is portraying unhealthy weight standards to their customers.

These individuals believe that the size that is portrayed by Nike's mannequins is obese, and as a result, is telling others that being a size like that is okay. Yet, the mannequins that are usually portrayed in Nike's stores, rarely represent body types of real people.

As I read these comments, I thought to myself – are these people crazy? Think about the men and women who have spent months, maybe even years, trying to lose enough weight just to fit into Nike's plus sized brand! As well, bigger women deserve clothes to work out in. It should not matter if they are "obese" they are working towards a healthier lifestyle.

The backlash being faced by Nike is the mentality that prevents many from even joining a gym. I can completely understand the fear an individual experiences when entering the gym, surrounded by people who look like fitness gods, and you feel like everybody is judging you. As if you do not belong in a gym.

I will never understand how creating more barriers for individuals will motivate others to exercise. In my own opinion, attractive workout clothes are more than enough to motivate me to get to the gym!

Do not let the mentality of fat-shaming, and others fear of a little jiggle prevent you from flaunting Nike's new style, and creating a healthier lifestyle for you

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