Have you ever felt something that wasn't there, a pull towards a person that keeps you going back to what broke you mentally or physically?

9 times out of 10 if there was intimacy involved, you are experiencing a soul tie. Many people allude soul ties to various bible verses. I know that everyone is not religious, so I'll try not to get too deep into it.

An ungodly soul tie happens when you are physically intimate with someone without being married to them. The political term for it is fornication.

" Do you not know that he who unites himself with a prostitute is one with her in body? For it is said, "the two will become one flesh..." NIV-1 Corinthians 6:16

No one is being judged by this, and I am you, so I'll use the term "we".

Translation: those whom we chose to give our flesh to out of marriage will make us become closer to them when not intended to by The Almighty. We begin to feel a deeper attachment. During this time all of the energy is transferred from your body to his, from her body to yours. Its is a very dangerous thing because the person we are intimate with could have spiritual baggage that we were unaware of. There is a spiritual bondage happening and any and every person we are intimate with there is a give and take of that person,and we carry parts of them forever. Energy transfers,excitement transfers, depression transfers, so much transfers between us without the realization. Why aren't we taking sex more seriously?!?

After the emotional abuse, lying, and depression we find ourselves wanting to go back, or thinking that its was a good thing, besides all of the harm they caused. How can we want to blame them when its us?! Often times we equate our current feelings for the old situation as "true love" or "the one that got away", but we have failed to realize that it is a soul tie. We did not know the passion of flesh and the consequences of the unwed We owe it to ourselves to pray about it and break these soul ties. WE DESERVE BETTER! I know you have an unhealthy connection to someone or something that you just love so badly, but we must not back track. BEAUTIFUL GIRL, not everyone deserves to know your soul! HANDSOME MAN, not everyone deserves to truly "feel" you! There are people praying for you, and there are those preying on you. You know you're breaking the soul tie when you can admit that there is a problem with the way you've been, their name barely comes out your mouth, actions are your own because of you, and forgiveness is in motion. We are not perfect, and nobody is asking us to be. Owe it to ourselves to break-free.

This is not a subliminal message to make you celibate beautiful one, but this is simply ventilation, and I am beginning to breath much better.