We have all been there. Simple conversations over the phone becomes an interrogation.
1. Are You Eating Enough?
We have all been asked if we are eating throughout the day. "Did you eat breakfast?" " Did you eat lunch?" "Did you eat dinner?" "We paid for a meal plan why aren't you eating in the cafeteria?" Let me just answer the question for every parent out there. Mom, Dad the food in the cafeteria is not good at all. There's no seasoning on the food, half of the time I have no idea what is on my plate.
2. Are You Keeping Up With Your Grades?
Yes, I am. I spend half of my day in the library doing assignments and studying for exams and tests. I promise you, I'm being a good student. I'm paying attention in class, I'm taking notes, and I'm turning everything in on time.
3.What Did You Spend Your Money On?
Yes, I spent my money on Taco Bell, and Whataburger. I'm a struggling college student who finds happiness in food. Taco Tuesday's is one of the best days because $4.99 taco plates! 3 tacos, rice, beans, and tortillas? Heck yes!
4. Who Are You Friends With?
Mom, Dad I can tell you who I'm hanging out with, but you won't remember their name next time I tell you. No, my friends aren't pressuring me to do stuff. No, they are not bad people. Yes, they go to class and do their work. Parents I can tell you personally, that we do not let our friends affect the reason why we came to college.
5. Are You And Your Roommate Getting Along?
Yes, we are. No, we do not hang out all the time. I don't know how they are doing, because we are not together 24/7. I don't know how she feels about college, I'm never in the room. Parents. let me give you a inside scoop of college. The best thing your student can do is live a separate life than their roommate. It will prevent conflict, and they won't get tired of each other. Having opposite schedules than your roommate is great, because you can have your time with your friends and have time to yourself.
6. Are You Dating Anyone?
No, I am not dating anyone. No, I am not talking to anyone. I came to college for an education, because I want to be successful. I do not have time to chase around a boy and worry about them when I need to worry about myself. Most college boys only want one thing in life, relationships are the last thing on their minds. There are some good guys out there who do want relationships though, but my education is more important right now.
