Year after year, we celebrate Thanksgiving for all that we are thankful for. We truly should remind ourselves year-round that we are grateful for everyone and everything we have, but to be honest, it’s difficult to always be so positive. Each year on Thanksgiving, I’m reminded of what it feels to only focus on love and peace; I wish it was easier to focus on that positivity each day of the year. I wish that among the stresses of being a college student, I would remember to thank the ones that I love every single day. Here’s to those who deserve thanks every day of the year:

My Mom: I am eternally grateful for you. You’ve not only given me life, but you’ve truly given me all that I have--my personality, my talents, and my strength. I know it isn’t easy being a stay at home mom. Heck, that’s probably the hardest job there is. You dedicate your entire life to your children, and we owe the same to you. You give me so much more than I need because you seek other’s happiness before your own. You always deserve to be reminded of how beautiful you are inside and out.

My brother: Although I have a running joke about my lack of affection and hatred of hugs, you’ll always be my favorite hugger. Even if I don’t want it, it seems as though you know when I need a hug or a laugh, usually instigated by one of the most insane jokes I’ve ever heard, but I guess it works. Your intelligence never ceases to amaze me, and I love watching you grow up. I know you can do something great, if you haven’t secretly known about it already. I cherish the moments we have together because you remind me of the enjoyments in life. You’re a friend I’ll have forever.

My boyfriend: I’m truly to have both a boyfriend and a best friend in you. Every time I’m not with you, I wish I were. You show me the little things in life--the things I cannot find on my own. You are my counterpart. It’s as though all of my missing pieces are filled by you. I thank you for showing me new things, and pushing me to face my fears. You bring me adventure. You bring me joy. You bring me a future.

This Thanksgiving, while sitting at the dinner table with the members of my family, I realized just how lucky I am. I could continue to write these letters, but the rest is what I’ll save for myself. All I can say is that although there will be days I complain about someone, or get angry at another, there is nothing I would change. I don’t remind anyone that I love them enough. But, here’s a start.