Thank You

Thank You

I am only one person and can only handle so much

To think that you gave someone your all and not get theirs in return is a sad thought. Am I not worthy of all you've got? Could you not see I was trying with everything in me to please you? What's the problem?

As Valentine's Day 2018 is upon us, I can't help but feel overwhelming sadness for my ended relationship that I thought would last forever. Key word: thought.

As I dwell on my sadness and try to process things in my mind, I've come to a partial understanding and sharing my heart is all I want to do.

Every time a relationship ends, someone feels feelings of unworthiness. As I've been told many times since my breakup, that's not the case. We are all worthy of someone who will love us for who we are and not what we can do for them. We won't have to become someone we aren't just to make someone happy. The person that is meant for you will walk into your life, if they haven't already and you will see for sure why past things never worked out. The phrase "we don't mesh" won't even be a thought. In my case, it was. I don't know what that means, I don't really even know how to take that other than just take the truth for what it is and go on.

I was drained. As a teenager trying to figure out life, a nursing student trying to make a career for myself, and on top of all that trying to balance being the best girlfriend I could be, it got hard. I lost every bit of myself in trying to balance all of this. I was so caught up in my "girlfriend" role that I cared nothing about myself. I craved more of him and his dreams, and was, and still am, so incredibly proud of what he is doing in his life. But why walk away?

Things got real, and they got real fast. You chose to walk away when things got hard, just so you could go back to the life you had that you so desperately wanted away from. It's hard to love someone else when you love yourself too much to see anything other than what you want. I can't make anyone see the big picture, and no longer will I try.

I believed you. All the times you said you cared and you loved me, yeah, I believed you. I know for a time you did love and care for me, but you got caught up in yourself, and that's okay. I tried to love you with everything I had in me. I tried to care for you, because that's the person I am. I wanted what was best for you, and I couldn't wait to see you achieve everything you wanted in life. But I gave up because you did. You gave up on someone who would have never given up on you.

I was happy before you, and I'll be happy again soon. I am only one person and can only handle so much, so many battles have been fought, but as I fought alone I've found it's better off to surrender than to keep weathering the storm. So as I go through this phase of sadness, I want you to know: I will always want what's best for you, and I know you'll do great things in life. I hope you find a girl that loves and cares for you as much as I did. And lastly, growing up is a part of life. We have to face it and not run from it, I can't wait until that day comes for you. Thank you for all the good times and even the bad ones. I do not, nor will I ever regret my time with you, but that time is over and I'm going on. In the end, lessons will be learned and a stronger person I will be because of it.

Again, thank you!

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A Letter From God To Help You Finish The Semester

God sees your struggles and He's here to give you strength and motivation.

My Child,

The lack of motivation towards the end of the semester is normal. You are mentally and physically tired, but you are almost at the end. Don’t stop walking down the perfect path I have for you. When you’re going along and you come upon a speedbump, I want you to go over it and keep driving. The paper you have to write and the test you have to study for are just small speedbumps I have given you to make you wiser. You can write that paper and you can gain motivation to study for that test. I am here to give you strength, and am here to open up your mind and give you motivation.

You are so loved. You have such a beautiful mind. The light of Jesus shines through your eyes and your smile brings comfort to the world. There’ll be times you feel like you’re carrying a heavy load. There’ll be times you feel like the task I have given you is impossible to perform. But remember this: I would never put anything upon your shoulders that you cannot carry. If I put you in a certain situation, it’s because I know you are strong enough to go through it.

When you feel like crying, cry to me. When you feel like a failure, remember how much I love you. You are not a failure and you are not going to give up. I will hold your hand through every second of your life. I will seek your heart through your darkest moments. I see you, I see your heart, and I see your burdens. And remember that I have your heart which means I also have your burdens. Follow my footsteps and you will be free from the doubt. Remember Mark 4:40-41: “Why are you so afraid? Do you still have no faith?” I have the power to calm any storm and wave. I have the power to calm YOUR storms and waves. Set your doubt, anger, and tiredness in my hands and simply be patient.

Romans 8:14-15 says,“For those who are led by the spirit of God are the children of God. The spirit you received does not make you slaves, so that you live in fear again, rather the spirit you received brought about your adoption to sonship.” Nothing can separate you from my love. Not even your lack of motivation. You have no motivation because you do not feel good enough. You are more than good enough. You were perfectly made by me and when I look down at you, I think of how proud I am of your heart.

Throughout the last few weeks of this semester, you will stumble upon speedbumps. But hold the hand of my son Jesus and you will be able to go over that speedbump with ease. Go write that paper, go study for that test, and go get an A in that class. I know you can because I have given you power.



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The 5 Best Outdoor Date Ideas Around Gainesville For You And Your Significant Other

Dating in a college town doesn't have to be only dinner and a movie; check out these unique ways to impress your date and explore Gainesville outside.


If you're tired of the typical dates in Gainesville, dinners at chain restaurants, movies, and drinks, you may be interested in some of the most adventurous or serene outdoor places to go on a date in Gainesville. You don't have to break the bank to enjoy a fun day outside with that special someone.

1. Farmer's Markets

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Visit a variety of farmers markets in Gainesville and try something new to eat:

Union Street Farmers Market is available to visit every Wednesday from 4:00 to 7:00 pm in Downtown Gainesville. Shop with your date for local artisan foods and see what the vendors have to offer in terms of arts and home.

Visit The Haile Farmer's Market on Saturday from 8:30 am to 12:00 pm. It is a bit farther away, but features over 50 registered vendors in the areas of meats, dairy, produce, crafts, baked goods, and non-profits.

The Alachua County Farmer's Market is also open from 8:30 am to 12:00 pm on Saturdays, rain or shine. They suggest bringing small bills to pick up the freshest produce before they sell out. Their website lists the in-season produce like beets, cabbage, carrots, kale, lettuce, and strawberries. Yum!

2. Kanapaha Botanical Gardens

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You and your date will be able to stroll along with the one and a half mile pathway in the beautiful gardens and view a variety of native plants and insects. Tickets are only $10 per person for this experience into the stunning views of one of Gainesville's most beautiful areas and bountiful photo opportunities. The gardens also contain a small gift shop for mementos.

3. Depot Park

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Depot Park is an excellent low-cost location to enjoy a more relaxed day with your special someone. Get more intimate with a picnic in the pavilion or stroll through Depot Park's many waterfront paths. According to their website, the southern half of Depot Park is a conservation area containing wildlife and plants, a wonderful opportunity to scout out some of Gainesville's local ecosystems.

4. Ichetucknee Springs State Park

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This is the perfect location to disconnect from your phone for an hour and a half as you float down the current of the Ichetucknee River. Scout out wildlife such as turtles, fish, and manatee and enjoy your flat either in single or double tubes, which are available to rent inside or just outside the state park. This state park is only $6 a vehicle and space to store your keys while you float is available for purchase as well.

5. Downtown Gainesville

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Downtown provides a variety of activities for you and your date that are outside of the box. Sit outside at a variety of restaurant choices and enjoy the eclectic area known as Gainesville's Downtown. Enjoy some food, whether it be Boca Fiesta, Liquid Ginger, The Top, or more. Downtown also has a variety of art galleries and music shops to stop by, which makes it an excellent location to explore new interests with someone.

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