My friend said something to me the other day that really opened my eyes. She stated that she feels like she has become a very talkative person (which to her, she believes she is over talkative) because she never has the chance to talk to those who are most important to her. She is constantly cut off. As I started thinking of this, I realized how relatable it was.
I am known to be loud, talkative, and full of energy. But, maybe with this idea in mind, it's possible that not being able to speak on the regular to those I try to reach out to has an effect on me. It is not because I'm neglected or anything. I just happen to be more of a shoulder to lean on (and I don't mind at all). Sometimes people just aren't in the mood to hear what I have to say, are too busy, or whatever else gets in the way.
But, that's why I have friends who accept that I am ready to spit out a sentence in full speed with lots of detail. I can depend on them for being just ears.
While others might find me annoying, my plan is not to be bothersome. If anything I apologize because I am scared that I am burdening them. But in the end, those who want to listen will stay and will prove a lot about what relationship we have.
Ironically I have my shy and awkward moments, but when I am comfortable, I can just be my talkative and honest self. And I love that.
So, if you find that you talk a lot...it's not such a bad thing. You can get your words in and feel much happier when people listen. You are not a burden, and your feelings are just as important as anyone else's. Talking is good for you, and for your mental health.