I'm about to end my sophomore year of college, and it's crazy to me that I am almost 2 years out of high school. While there are so many things I am happy I did, there are also so many things of which I wish I took full advantage...
1. Spend as much time with your friends as you can.
Soon you will be all over the country going to college and exploring the next step of your life. You will regret not making memories.
2. Spend time with your family.
GiphyFor the first time in 17-18 years, you'll be on your own without them. It may not seem like it now, but you will miss them!
3. Go to all the senior events.
It's cliche, but you will regret not going.
4. Actually study for your AP exams.
GiphyDoing this has saved me so much time and money in college. Also, I got a better pick date for classes and housing :)
5. Apply to scholarships.
Yeah, you're done being in school mode. Senioritis has hit you so hard, but think how much nicer your life will be if you saved some money. Things add up in college.
6. Do what makes you happy.
Your sport not making you happy? Doing an activity not making you happy? Then quit. You've gotten into college at this point. Do the things that bring you the most joy.
7. Walk the halls of your high school and take it all in.
GiphyYou will never be this young and free again. Take it all in. You will miss this.
8. Make crazy memories with your friends before they become your "hometown friends."
You will regret not hanging out and making amazing memories with your friends before you all go off to school.
9. Thank the teachers who inspired you.
They will miss you too.
10. Take as many pictures as possible. It feels good to look back on those later.
You will forget more than you think you will.
11. Dance your heart out at prom.
This is one of the last times you will be together with your entire class.
12. Embrace your last everythings.
It is all coming to an end. All good things must end.
13. Start buying stuff for college.
GiphyYou will get better deals earlier. Things will be more expensive as college gets closer.
14. Tell people how you really feel.
This is the best time to take a risk and tell people how you really feel. You most likely won't see most of these people again anyway.
15. Take a personal day (other than senior skip day), and cut school with all your friends.
Enjoy the last bits of your childhood before you have real responsibilities.
16. Do something fun for senior skip day too.
Get all your friends together and make memories!
17. Enjoy your parent's cooking. You will miss it next year.
Maybe you are sick of eating your mom's chicken. You will miss eating it though.
18. Embrace the summer after your senior year. Work hard, but have fun.
As cliche as it sounds, work hard, but play harder. You will need money for college, but don't spend every waking hour working. Make memories with your friends.
19. Get close to the people to whom you've always wanted.
Now is your chance to become better friends with people. If you don't now, when will you?
20. Remember that it goes fast.
I underestimated how fast the end of senior year was. It flew by in the blink of an eye. Embrace every second of it.
21. Walk across the stage at graduation confidently.
You did it! Be proud of all you accomplished.
22. Stop wishing high school away.
GiphyYes, it's senior year. Yes, you are so freaking done, but you will miss it.
7 Small Things you Only Understand When You come From A HUGE Family
It's all fun and games until your friendly game of "rock, paper, scissors" becomes full-blown WWE.
I come from a big family, on both my mom's side and my dad's. We typically are around my mom's family, though, which makes my dad's side look small. Either way, my family is big. By "big family", I mean that a typical Sunday dinner consists of about 30 people. My home church is practically just my family. Family vacation is over 40 of us sharing a beach house. We are a very big, very close family, and it can be pretty great. It can be a terrible thing, too. Anyway, here are seven pros and cons of growing up within a 20-minute radius of your whole family.
We are always together.
Everyone likes their alone-time, but my family is no stranger to "alone-time" consisting of five other people in the same room. It is honestly a great thing—we're all extremely close and always have someone to lean on when times get rough. There are, however, some downfalls to never having two minutes without a cousin breathing down your neck. I'm pretty sure it's impossible to be around someone all the time without wanting to strangle them a time or two... Or twenty.
There is no such thing as a secret.
Clearly, secrets aren't always a good thing. If a person in the family is having some issues with a friend or is in a bad relationship, the whole family knows and wants to do what they can to help. That's good and all—except for the fact that there aren't any secrets AT ALL. You honestly cannot make one mistake without everyone acting like they are your parent, telling you what you should have done instead.
All your cousins are your best friends.
Growing up around your family, you get extremely close with your cousins. A lot of times, they end up going to the same school as you. This means that you start out your school career with someone you know. You can grow your friend group and all be best friends and it will be great. However, if you're as unlucky as me, nobody else decided to have kids around the time your mom did. That led to you being the awkward cousin who didn't really fit in with the older group or the younger group. That, then, leads to a very socially awkward child/adult (AKA, me).
You're never alone.
Sometimes, you just need a shoulder to cry on when you have a bad day, a bad break up, or even just want to complain. Being in a big family means that there is always someone to help you get through your feels and get to a better mood. What doesn't work is when you just want to be alone and your family won't let that happen. I mean, yes, a "How are you?" text is nice, but if it's literally 20 texts every 10 minutes, it gets kind of old. That just leads to you being sad and annoyed.
Everyone has advice to give.
In a big family, there will always be someone older than you or someone who has gone through what you're currently going through. It makes it extremely nice because they can stop you from making some seriously poor life choices. Everyone wants to give you a helping hand and you can really feel the love. Sometimes, though, the advice is given when completely unnecessary and unwanted. Like, OK, Cheryl. I understand that tattoos are permanent, but so is the botched Botox you got last year.
There is always AMAZING food.
In big families, everyone is always finding new recipes—from dill pickle soup to "better than sex" cake, we are always trying something new. It's always a great time! It really is. Until you're 25 pounds heavier and struggling to fit into your fat pants. So, yeah, dipping chocolate graham crackers in a dip that taste like cookie dough is a great idea in theory, but when you have someone walk up to you asking when your due date is, you start to reconsider.
There is never a dull moment.
When your whole family can be at your house before you can finish an episode of "Family Guy", you know that they are down for any fun activities. Whether it be a spontaneous game night or a bonfire and hot dogs, a big family is always down to get together. It makes for a great time when you are bored on a Friday night, but sometimes you'll be home on a Tuesday and your whole family will come piling in with 18 movies, 12 games, and 10 bottles of wine. And you work at 9 A.M. the next morning.