God Is Strengthening You In This Waiting Season

No Girl, God Did Not Leave You On 'Read,' He Is Just Strengthening Your Faith In This Waiting Season

Waiting is more than just sitting still, God wants us to trust in His timing and worship Him while waiting on it.


I hate waiting.

Whether it's waiting for a package to arrive in the mail or waiting at the DMV, stick me in any type of line and you can be sure that I will complain.

It's more of an automatic mechanism at this point. We live in a world where we can get anything instantly – McDonald's in under five minutes, a quick search on our phones, a nice swipe of our credit card – and when we are told to wait, we are kind of jolted.

It's also more than a social issue. It's a heart issue, especially for myself. I've always hated the waiting game. The countdown to Christmas was agonizing because I just wanted to tear into my presents then and there and have everybody see what I got them. I feel like dying when I roll up to a coffee shop and have to wait in line to order, then wait to receive it. The walk to my classes from my dorm room in the heat kills me because it takes too long to get there. When I am in bad traffic, I am restless, because I just want to go, go, go and get my answer.

The same goes for my prayer life. I pray to God and expect Him to reply to me as soon as He hears me. I ask Him for clarity, or wisdom towards a certain thing, and get annoyed if nothing comes back to me within the hour. It feels like I am on a call with God and He just put the phone down and walked away as I blubbered about everything.

Except that isn't what is happening.

God hears every prayer, every wish, every cry I send out to Him. He knows us and knows what is best for us. He doesn't roll His eyes when you are having a hard day or turn His back when you make another mistake. He's there with you, every step of the way. But He isn't going to do it your way.

God isn't in a hurry. He takes His time, making sure everything is perfect and to His liking. He doesn't rush like we do every day; instead, He waits until the best moment. He has His own timeline that is ten times the plan that we have.

I worry constantly when I don't receive an answer from Him right away. It feels like I texted Him my problem and the speech bubble is there, showing He is replying back, except the reply takes, days, weeks, and even months. I will pray once and then if I don't hear anything back, I go with my own plan. It's the reason I'm tired, uncertain, and lost. I'm trying to make my imperfect timeline work when He has the plan all mapped out if only I would wait.

What I've realized lately is that I need to be in constant prayer. I need to trust that God has that beautiful plan all laid out for me and is just asking for me to wait and to trust in His timing. I can't just pray once and call it good and demand an answer. A life like that will just lead to anxiety and lack-luster feelings.

God has a plan for us.

Every minute of every day He knows and what He wants for us is a million times better than we could ever think of.

He won't give it to us right away, we just have to have faith and follow, which can be difficult, especially if you're an impatient person like me, who gets frustrated when the car in front of her is going five miles per hour under the speed limit. But in this season of waiting, use it to strengthen your patience, and expand your faith.

"Sometimes it isn't about the answer to the prayer. Sometimes it is more about what you learn while you're waiting for the answer."

God is never late to answer. Psalm 73:26 says, "When all else fails, God doesn't." Just continue worshipping, praying, smiling, and walking through life and know God has it all figured out. The wait is part of the journey. And you may just look back on this period in your life in the future and smile – because you see how God worked throughout all the complaining and agonizing nights.

And all you had to do was wait.

"Our prayers have no expiration date. You never know when or where or how God will answer."

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17 Empowering Bible Verses For Women

You go, girl.

We all have those days where we let the negative thoughts that we're "not good enough," "not pretty enough" or "not smart enough" invade our minds. It's easy to lose hope in these situations and to feel like it would be easier to just give up. However, the Bible reminds us that these things that we tell ourselves are not true and it gives us the affirmations that we need. Let these verses give you the power and motivation that you're lacking.

1. Proverbs 31:25

"She is clothed with strength and dignity and she laughs without fear of the future."

2. Psalm 46:5

"God is within her, she will not fall."

3. Luke 1:45

"Blessed is she who believed that the Lord would fulfill His promises to her."

4. Proverbs 31:17

"She is energetic and strong, a hard worker."

5. Psalm 28:7

"The Lord is my strength and my shield."

6. Proverbs 11:16

"A gracious woman gains respect, but ruthless men gain only wealth."

7. Joshua 1:9

"Be strong and courageous! Do not be afraid or discouraged. For the Lord your God is with you wherever you go."

8. Proverbs 31:30

"Charm is deceptive, and beauty does not last; but a woman who fears the Lord will be greatly praised."

9. 1 Corinthians 15:10

"By the grace of God, I am what I am."

10. Proverbs 31:26

"When she speaks, her words are wise, and she gives instructions with kindness."

11. Psalm 139:14

"I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made."

12. 1 Peter 3:3-4

"Don't be concerned about the outward beauty of fancy hairstyles, expensive jewelry, or beautiful clothes. You should clothe yourselves instead with the beauty that comes from within, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is so precious to God."

13. Colossians 2:10

"And in Christ you have been brought to fullness."

14. 2 Timothy 1:7

"For God has not given us a spirit of fear and timidity, but of power, love, and self-discipline."

15. Jeremiah 29:11

"'For I know the plans I have for you,' says the Lord. 'They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope.'"

16. Exodus 14:14

"The Lord himself will fight for you. Just stay calm."

17. Song of Songs 4:7

"You are altogether beautiful, my darling, beautiful in every way."

Next time you're feeling discouraged or weak, come back to these verses and use them to give you the strength and power that you need to conquer your battles.

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5 Facts About Spiritual Gifts That You Need To Know

Different gifts, but from the same Spirit


1 Corinthians 12:4-5 states; "[4] There are different kinds of gifts, but the same Spirit distributes them. [5] There are different kinds of service, but the same Lord." We see that there are multiple spiritual gifts, but they all come from the same Lord.

1. We all have different gifts and that's okay


Just like a body has different parts that each has its own function, that's like the body of Christ. We all have different gifts and different purposes, but we're all part of the body of Christ. God has a plan for you and has given you certain gifts. God doesn't call the equipped, he equips the calling.

2. There are various spiritual gifts mentioned in the Bible


Romans 12, 1 Corinthians 12, and Ephesians 4 are some of the bible passages that talk about spiritual gifts. Giving, leadership, mercy, prophecy, service, tongue interpretation, administration, discernment, hospitality, missionary, and evangelism are some of the spiritual gifts that people can have. We can desire any gift, but it's God's choice on what gifts He gives us.

Remember, everyone can receive speaking in tongues via baptism in the Holy Spirit, but not everyone will get the gift of tongue interpretation.

3. Spiritual Gifts are supernatural abilities that are either given or enhanced via the Holy Spirit


God gave us these Spiritual gifts because God wants to invest in His church.

4. Spiritual gifts are for strengthening others


We have spiritual gifts in order to help others.

5. It does take time for gifts to mature and develop


Like with a skill that you have, it does take time for you to own said skill. You put in the work, and because of that, you grow in your skill, and you get better. That's the same way with your gifts. God gives each of us certain gifts to use, and it will take time to mature those gifts.

Spiritual gifts are important.

In Romans 12:6 states; "[6] We have different gifts, according to the grace given to each of us. If your gift is prophesying, then prophesy in accordance with your faith; [7] if it is serving, then serve; if it is teaching, then teach; [8] if it is to encourage, then give encouragement; if it is giving, then give generously; if it is to lead, do it diligently; if it is to show mercy, do it cheerfully."

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