Sometimes You Need To Thank Your First Love
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Sometimes You Need To Thank Your First Love

Your first love had to of taught you something.

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Sometimes You Need To Thank Your First Love

Everyone has a first love. Often times your first love isn't your only love or your last love. The truth of the matter is, you will have many loves and you are going to go through heart breaks, you'll break peoples heart or get your heart broken..that is life. Your first love is important, even if you were young and stupid because your first love taught you a lot of things. For instance they taught you how to love. Love is so much more than just being cute together. It goes deep beyond what you find on the outside.

My first love was just how I wanted it. It was easy and fun. I knew when he wasn't okay and he know when I wasn't okay. There was date nights and game nights maybe some Netflix and chill nights. We dug so deep into each other that we know every little things about one another. Whether its how we like our coffee in the morning or what made us so upset the night before. It was a love that I was happy with, a love that I wanted, because it was unconditional love.

Unconditional love is the best love, because there is nothing that you can trade for it, it is always going to be there, and will never judge. It's not "I will give you a back massage if you give ma a back massage." You should give the back massage even uf you won't get one in return. It's surprising each other with gifts and cook each others favorite meal. It is all the little things that you do that shows your love towards one another. That is the kind of love that everyone should have.

My first love, also my first boyfriend changed me, but not in the sense that I changed as a person, but changed my mind if you will. I had this glow in my attitude, I looked at life a different way, I had all the normal future plans all played out in my head like any other girl does LOL. My first love knew me as a person and just how to cheer me up when I was down always had cute things planned for me. He showed me all the things I have been missing and all the things I want purely by loving me because that is what changed my attitude on life.

Some people have bad blood with their first love, many don't even talk to them anymore. For me its the total opposite. I am on good terms with him, hell I still love him. But what can I say? He was my first for lots of things and the first is always the hardest. Plus I never want to let go of someone who loves me so much.

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I can't say "thank you" enough to express how grateful I am for you coming into my life. You have made such a huge impact on my life. I would not be the person I am today without you and I know that you will keep inspiring me to become an even better version of myself.

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