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Dear Sister, On The Best Day Of Your Life, Here Is My Best Marriage Advice

I know it's untraditional, but who cares.

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Dear Sister, On The Best Day Of Your Life, Here Is My Best Marriage Advice
Gina Dreher Photography

I'm going to begin and end this letter the same. I love you.

They always tell you, "you grow up quick"... and nothing has ever truly hit me as hard as you get married.

Growing up, we've practiced walking down the aisle with fake flowers and an oversized "dress up" gown. We've spent hours talking about who our "dream guy" was and what we want the colors of our wedding to be. Never have I thought that that day would come so soon.

Our relationship has always been solid. Well, as solid as a house full of girls can be. We fought, occasionally hair brushes were thrown. Cars were backed into (by the way, still SO sorry for that) but of course, my memories are filled with giggles and hugs and secrets.

When you first introduced your guy, I truly knew he was the one for you. As you grew in age, you grew together, creating a special bond only God can provide.

At first, I'm not going to lie… I felt sorry for the ol' boy as I know (you), my sister, and I KNOW your hard-headedness. But as time grew on (7 years to be exact!), let's just say your future husband KNOWS what he's getting himself in for!

On a more serious note, you are the type of sister that everyone probably wishes that they had, and you guessed it, I'm bawling at this point in the letter. As far back as I can remember, you've been the voice of reason, my biggest cheerleader and my role model.

Above all, you've been a great friend. Even though you're going to be living far away, you'll still be the first person I call with good news, bad news or just when I need advice or someone to listen to me gripe and moan... you're my person. I honestly don't know what I would do without you.

And to your future husband, I'd like to officially welcome him to our family. We love each of you so very much. Sis, I've always hoped that you could find someone that can keep up with you, someone who challenges you, makes you laugh, enjoys the same thing you do. Above all, I had hoped you would find someone who can put you in your place and your future husband is that someone.

To finish my long sappy letter, I would like to share a few tips with you, tips that are supposed to guarantee a long and happy marriage (like I would know, but google told me so). Number one, when you're wrong, admit it. When you're right, shut up. The best way to remember your anniversary is to forget it once. Happy wife is a happy life.

Finally never be afraid you'll get sick and tired and leave your future groom... because you've spent years training him and you will not give that up.

With that said, I wish you a lifetime of happiness. May the road be long and the party never end.

I love you.


-Love your sister

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