Being the perpetually single friend has its ups and downs. (More downs depending on how you look at it). But one of the greatest perks of being perpetually single is being single on Valentine's Day. I know this doesn't seem like it could be true, but just hear me out.
When you're not in a relationship on Valentine's, you're not obligated to do anything for anyone else. You don't have to buy expensive gifts, dress up, or go out for an expensive dinner. You're not even obligated to look nice that day.
With that being said, here are four reasons why being single on Valentine's Day is better than being in a relationship.
1. Anyone can be your Valentine.
Why is it that we believe that Valentine's Day is just for people that are in relationships? Valentine's Day isn't just about pleasing your significant other. It's about spreading love and showing appreciation to those you love- either romantically or not. If you think about it anyone can be your valentine. Your mom, best friend, or the cute guy at that single's party you went to. Spread the love!
2. You don't have to deal with the drama that comes along with it.
Is it just me or on every Valentine's Day you find at least one or two couples at each other's throats for something that would normally not be a big deal. You forgot to make a dinner reservation? Argument! You bought dark chocolate instead of milk chocolate? Argument! And don't get me started on what happens if you actually FORGET Valentine's Day.
3. Wine and Bubble Baths are better than fancy dinners
First off, it's cheaper! Second, nothing makes you feel better than having time for yourself. You don't have any obligation to go anywhere or do anything. You can simply sit at home, drink a bottle of wine, and catch up on your Netflix shows.
4. Two Words: February 15th!
As both a single person and a broke college student, I love a good bargain. The day after Valentine's Day has a lot of great deals! 75% off heart-shaped candies and chocolate, 2 for one wine specials, and various stuffed animals and Valentine's Day cards that we can compile for next year just in case we find ourselves in an actual relationship.
No matter if you're single, in a relationship, or somewhere in between, you can still find ways to enjoy Valentine's Day. You can go on a date with your significant other, throw a singles party with your friends, or just stay home and study for that exam you have in the morning because it's still a weekday. Because at the end of the day, Valentine's Day is just another day. The only difference is the amount of heart-shaped things that you are allowed to eat and it is still socially acceptable.
