Workers In The Restaurant Industry Deserve Far More Credit Than They Receive

Workers In The Restaurant Industry Deserve Far More Credit Than They Receive

Dealing with rude clientele, applying unnecessary discounts and receiving sh*t tips deserves a round of applause.


DISCLAIMER: In simply one year of maintaining employment at various businesses throughout the restaurant industry, I have witnessed the incredulous amount of responsibility and work ethic required to ensure customer satisfaction. Yet, regardless of the amount of said effort that is put in by staff members each and every day to create a remarkable guest experience, workers will continuously cross paths with those who find even the slightest of ordeals to complain about. What these customers tend to forget is that the hosts, servers, chefs, and bussers at your favorite restaurants are human, and deserve to be respected for their efforts. Workers in each position bend over backward while engaging in countless efforts to satisfy parties of all sizes that enter their restaurant on a daily basis, though it does not come without the costs of tedious aggravation and the urge to maintain perfection.

With regards to my personal experience, I have been working as a hostess at various restaurants for a brief period of one year, and throughout this time, I often see far more disrespect than I would like to.

As an employee in this business, my number one priority is to accommodate guests to the best of my ability. As I am primarily required to seat guests, I often find myself in far more contact with them than I once expected. Whether I am engaging in small talk, answering questions about the menu, or taking an order over the phone, I remain incredibly grateful for the customers that display proper etiquette towards me.

Often times, I am lucky if I receive a "thank you" from a guest after assisting them. Do not get me wrong - this slight culmination of bitterness has developed over a period of time, and eventually, one learns how to adapt to working in this industry. Yet, in actuality, I have far less to complain about than that of a server, bartender, chef or manager. Their interactions with guests tend to be far more in-depth than my own, and the incidences of blatant ignorance towards these workers that I have seen is deplorable.

I believe that there is a certain level of respect that must be maintained between people, regardless of whether one works in the restaurant industry or not.

I feel as though there is no excuse to show ignorance to a person that is doing their best to guide you through a pleasant experience in their place of employment. Leaving a server little to no tip is possibly the biggest slap in the face you could give to one who is attempting to make a livelihood in this industry. Blatantly showing your disdain toward a host because you are required to be put on a ten-minute waiting list for a table when a restaurant is filled to capacity is not their fault. Sending drinks back and forth to the bar because they were made with "too much ice" is simply unnecessary.

If you are looking to enjoy your dining experience at a restaurant, show your respect to those who are breaking their backs to please you. If you find that impossible, I suggest you try walking a mile in their shoes.

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A Letter To Dad From His Thankful Daughter

Thank you, Daddy.

Dear Daddy,

I want to start off by saying thank you for always being there for me. You have not made me go a day without a father in my life. You have and continue to teach me how to be loved. You have always loved me with your whole heart. You are not selfish but humble and kind. You gave up your dreams so I could chase mine, thank you. Thank you for giving me the opportunities you did not have growing up. Thank you for working long hard hours so that I can have the things I have. Thank you for always making things work between you and mom. Thank you for not leaving. Thank you for being my daddy.

Thank you for all that you have done and continue to do every day. I will forever be grateful for you daddy. It is because of you that I know how to ride a bike, how to swim, how to cook collard greens and how to pump gas (lol). Thank you for always being a great father and husband to mom. I will always know how a man should treat their daughter and wife because of you. You continuously encourage me to run after my dreams even when I have lost my faith. Thank you for lifting my spirit up when I am down. You have always been a shoulder to cry on. You are my hero. You are the best father and I hope one day I can marry someone who is just like you. You have given your life away to work and support mom and me. Thank you.

Thank you for trying you hardest to not let me fall and for always picking me up when I did. You are my hero. You are the person I look up to for advice and for comfort. I hope you know that I am the person I am today because of and for you. So, Thank you. Thank you for helping me set my standards in a husband and in the future father of my children. Thank you for never leaving me lonely. Thank you for teaching me all the things a daddy should teach their daughter. Thank you for never letting me go without. Thank you for being a daddy and a good one at that.

I am not sure if I have told you this as much as I should but I am so thankful for you. I never had to grow up and not know what it was like to not have you around. Thank you. I will never have to feel alone. I will always have you to hold me and tell me you love me. You are my daddy, my hero, my supporter and my biggest fan. I love you.

So, thank you for never leaving me alone, for teaching me how to not be afraid, and for loving me. I love you, dad.


Your daughter

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5 Things You Need To Know About Thinx Underwear

Those of you with a uterus, listen up.


I first heard about Thinx underwear two years ago while on a subway in Washington DC. I thought the whole idea of leakproof underwear sounded a bit too much like diapers and brushed the product aside. Fast forward two years, my mom states that she is going to buy a pair to try and offered to get me one too. With nothing to lose and everything to gain, I decided to give it a try. I'm sure glad I did!

If you're not familiar with Thinx allow me to explain. It's a company that prides themselves on creating underwear specifically designed for individuals to wear during their periods. Looking at the reviews, everyone seemed to love them, and after trying them out for myself, I must say I like them quite a lot. Here are a few important things to know about Thinx underwear.

1. It doesn’t always replace your pads/tampons

Thinx may not replace tampons, but it can help cut back the amount you use.

I learned this the hard way that if you have a heavy flow, you can't wear Thinx on its own. If you have a light flow, you could get away with only wearing these, but for us poor souls with heavy flows, I recommend making these your new period underwear. You never have to worry about any leaks, even at night!

2. They don't stain

Behold! No bloodstains!

If you leak onto this underwear, fear not. Merely rinse them in the sink and then throw them in the wash like normal and boom! Clean underwear. No more ugly stained underwear to keep in the corner of your drawer.

3. There’s a bunch of cute designs/colors

There's something for everyone!

One thing I must say about Thinx is that they have a wide variety of options. There are several different cuts, and almost all of them come in different colors options as well. They seem to be introducing new colors all the time, so keep an eye out for one you like.

4. They are super comfy!

These feel just like normal underwear.

When I got my pair, I was worried that this underwear would feel like wearing a diaper or something else uncomfortable, but that was not the case at all! This underwear when you're wearing it feels like normal underwear, and while you're washing it, it feels like a swimsuit.

5. They donate to a good cause

Everyone should have access to period products. Period.

For every pair of underwear that you buy, the company donates a pair to someone in need. It seems like most are sent to developing countries where women do not have access to proper menstruation hygiene products. In addition to this, Thinx was designed to help cut back the number of disposable pads entering landfills. They designed this underwear to be a more sustainable alternative for people with periods!

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