There is so much that goes into being in a relationship that any little bit of something extra can make it seem too much. A study shows that we are on our phones at least two hours a day, probably way more for the younger generations (because I mean come on those satisfactions or cake videos are addictive).
No matter how important things may seem on our phone, being connected to the outside world and all, can actually affect our relationship in ways we didn't think. The biggest thing of all, that I am sure most people are familiar with is when partner idolizes other people on social media. Another big wedge that can come between partners is being on the phone constantly while physically being together. Lastly, texting can harm relationships because things do not always equate well over text.
When your boyfriend/girlfriend likes another person picture posing in a bikini or flexing at the gym, it can hurt a lot of people. Many people do not say this is a big deal but, it can still hurt. No one wants to see their significant checking out a girl in a bikini or a muscle man in the gym, so why would they feel any different when this is the what the person they care for favorites or likes. Some might see this as crazy but it is the world we live in today where technology plays such a significant role. So be cognizant of what you are liking, making sure it is not just thongkinis and muscle shirts.
Being on one's phone is a huge deal not just in romantic relationships but, friendships and family situations. Even though it may seem like just a quick glance to see the score of the game or who viewed your Snapchat story, it usually lasts much longer. Physically being with someone, showing them your interest in them and the things they enjoy is one of the best feelings ever. Remember the feelings of the person you're with and try to focus your time and energy on them because whatever you're checking will be there when you get done.
Emojis and Gifs have changed the game for texting, but still not enough. Sarcasm or joking usually does not fend well over text. Trying to be flirty or cheeky can likely lead into a sticky situation of miscommunication and hurt feelings. When texting does not assume that your partner will understand what you are trying to say, even if they can finish your sentence when together. Focus on sending factual but fun texts to keep small tiffs ours.
With social media having such a stronghold in our lives today try to put it away and focus on the time spent face to face with your loved ones, because not only is it better but it causes way less drama.
