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10 Dating Red Flags That Should Make You Wave Your White Flag And Say Buh Bye

1. If he starts a sentence with "If you love me, you would..."

 Hanna Lee
Apr 02, 2018
Texas A&M University
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10 Dating Red Flags That Should Make You Wave Your White Flag And Say Buh Bye
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1. He starts a sentence with "If you love me, you would..."

This phrase is just manipulative. Don't use my love for you to get me to do something I don't want to do.

2. Most people around you all get a bad feeling about him.

Most likely, you're blinded by charm to see it or he probably puts up a good front in front of you. Listen to your friends and family, and thank God for their honest opinions!


3. He is always bashing himself.

Not only is fishing for compliments unattractive, it only shows how insecure he is. He probably needs time to work on his self-confidence issues.

4. He plays games with you and your emotions to save his pride.

Immaturity. He needs to grow up and be a man.



5. You catch him telling multiple lies or withholding the truth from you.

Relationships are about trust and honesty so...

6. You guys barely know each other and you have already become his whole life.

No one wants a clingy, needy bf

7. In barely knowing each other, he is always asking you to come over to his house rather than taking you out.

I'm sorry to tell you this but, he likely has hidden motives.



8. If he pressures you into doing anything you don't want to do.

..... no.

9. He makes you feel lower than you are or belittles you.

10. You feel bored and uninterested when around him.

Just be honest if you guys just don't have anything in common and have nothing to talk about. Girl, don't settle.


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