Who Should Rebecca Bunch End Up With?

Who Should Rebecca Bunch End Up With on 'Crazy Ex-Girlfriend?'

Rebecca has to make a choice, but since Darryl's decision chart didn't help, maybe mine will.


Since the start of 'Crazy Ex-Girlfriend' season 5, Rebecca Bunch has finally been focusing on herself. This is evident from the episode titles, which finally begin with "I" rather than "Josh" or "Nathaniel." What a relief. Finally, Rebecca is taking care of herself, her interests, and her mental health before focusing on her romantic relationships.

With that said, Rebecca does still have a lot going on in her love life. Josh and Rebecca are roommates, so it only complicated things further when he suddenly realized that he's still in love with her. They have a pretty long history together, considering she did move to West Covina for him, and he's also matured significantly since he walked out on their wedding back in season 2.

Meanwhile, Rebecca and Nathaniel almost kissed a couple of episodes ago backstage their community theatre production when he sung the song Rebecca rewrote (maybe hinting at her future success as a screenwriter? hopefully?). Nathaniel is also newly reformed, which makes the decision pretty tough.

Greg is a whole other story, since he and Rebecca also have a complex history, and he's the most recent guy that she's dated before realizing that her mental health takes precedence. He's back to West Covina, probably for good, and that could play into Rebecca's choice.

So now, my views on the whole "who will Rebecca choose after her three big dates" situation.

First off, Josh. I'm going to be honest, I really think Rebecca deserves better. As sweet and sunshine-y as Josh Chan is, he's still working on himself. He barely found a place to live with Rebecca, doesn't really have a steady source of income, used to live with Hector's mom, and honestly acts pretty oblivious and immature in most situations. The aforementioned obliviousness and immaturity are also, in my opinion, pretty bad character traits to have when you're with someone who's dealing with a serious mental illness. As goofy and lovable as he is, I think Josh probably needs to start over with someone he didn't leave at the alter.

Now Nathaniel. Honestly, I'm pretty torn about him. When he was introduced to the show, he was a sort of throw-in character meant to boost the ratings. The writers poked fun at the need for an attractive, straight, white male with the song "Who's the New Guy?" and really grew Nathaniel's personality from there. He started off as, pardon my language, a total asshole. He was rude and aggressive, selfish and snobby, and overall a pompous prick. But he's really grown since his first appearance mid-season two. As Rebecca notes in last week's episode, Nathaniel has been working his butt of to become 'nice,' and it's kind of working? I'm as surprised as anyone. At first, it seemed to me that Nathaniel wasn't really changing as a person, just putting on a show for Rebecca. However, he does seem to have changed at least somewhat. Fake it 'til you make it, y'know? I can't really imagine Nathaniel going back to the arrogant, stuck-up lawyer he used to be. I wouldn't be mad if Rebecca chose him, but I'm still worried that he's only changing for her, not for himself. He does have a ton of personal issues that have to be addressed, especially family related, but maybe that helps him to relate to Rebecca even more?

Greg is probably the top of the list, based solely on how the show has been going. Greg is fully reformed (and literally being played by a new actor to show just how much he's changed). He's finally accepted his place in West Covina after some years away, and now hopes to become a small business owner by taking over his father's old restaurant. He and Rebecca tried to go out earlier this season, but it turned out that she just wasn't ready for a relationship. If Rebecca is to end up with someone, Greg is probably the most stable choice.

There are, however, a couple of new things to consider. First, Rebecca is still working on herself. She's getting better, but she's more or less still in the same place she was when she broke up with Greg. Romantic relationships are not the top thing on her mind right now, and maybe it should stay that way.

Additionally, it seems like the show is building up the idea of Rebecca as a writer. She loves theatre, despite her inability to actually sing, so maybe play/songwriting is her calling. If it is, she might need to focus on that instead of worrying about her life. I have a theory that, in the same way that Rebecca started the show by moving to West Covina for Josh, she may end the show by moving to New York or LA in pursuit of her new dream. This would make pursuing a relationship with any of the three men listed above impossible. Josh is pretty much tied to his home, Nathaniel has a law firm to run, and Greg just decided to stay in West Covina.

It's important to remember that 'Crazy Ex-Girlfriend' isn't a typical love story. It's a story of character growth, and it ultimately seeks to establish a realistic portrayal of life with mental illness. If CXG is a love story at all, it's Rebecca's love story with herself and her dreams. We, as viewers, should support her in any choice she makes.

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8 Types Of People Fetuses Grow Into That 'Pro-Lifers' Don't Give 2.5 Shits About

It is easy to fight for the life of someone who isn't born, and then forget that you wanted them to be alive when you decide to hate their existence.


For those in support of the #AbortionBans happening all over the United States, please remember that the unborn will not always be a fetus — he or she may grow up to be just another person whose existence you don't support.

The fetus may grow up to be transgender — they may wear clothes you deem "not for them" and identify in a way you don't agree with, and their life will mean nothing to you when you call them a mentally unstable perv for trying to use the bathroom.

The fetus may grow up to be gay — they may find happiness and love in the arms of someone of the same gender, and their life will mean nothing to you when you call them "vile" and shield your children's eyes when they kiss their partner.

The fetus may grow up and go to school — to get shot by someone carrying a gun they should have never been able to acquire, and their life will mean nothing to you when your right to bear arms is on the line.

The fetus may be black — they may wear baggy pants and "look like a thug", and their life will mean nothing to you when you defend the police officer who had no reason to shoot.

The fetus may grow up to be a criminal — he might live on death row for a heinous crime, and his life will mean nothing to you when you fight for the use of lethal injection to end it.

The fetus may end up poor — living off of a minimum wage job and food stamps to survive, and their life will mean nothing to you when they ask for assistance and you call them a "freeloader" and refuse.

The fetus may end up addicted to drugs — an experimentation gone wrong that has led to a lifetime of getting high and their life will mean nothing to you when you see a report that they OD'd and you make a fuss about the availability of Narcan.

The fetus may one day need an abortion — from trauma or simply not being ready, and her life will mean nothing to you as you wave "murderer" and "God hates you" signs as she walks into the office for the procedure.

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Do not tell me that you are pro-life when all of the above people could lose their lives in any way OUTSIDE of abortion and you wouldn't give 2.5 shits.

You fight for the baby to be born, but if he or she is gay or trans, you will berate them for who they are or not support them for who they love.

You fight for the baby to be born, but if he or she is poor or addicted, you will refuse the help they desperately need or consider their death a betterment of society.

You fight for the baby to be born, but when the used-to-be-classroom-of-fetuses is shot, you care more about your access to firearms than their lives.

It is easy to pretend you care about someone before they are even born, and easy to forget their birth was something you fought for when they are anything other than what you consider an ideal person.

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You Know You're From Trumbull, CT When...

The best memories are made in this boring, little, Connecticut town.


1. The majority of places you will consider to eat at are in Fairfield or Westport... Colony, Shake Shack, Country Cow, Playa Bowls, BarTaco

2. But if you find yourself too lazy to get on 95 for food, Panchero's is the go-to... never Chipotle. If it is past midnight, the choice always comes down to the McDonalds in Monroe, where you are almost guaranteed to see a group of people you know, or Merritt Canteen.

3. Once you got your license, your Friday night plans consisted of picking up friends, driving up and down Main Street, and, somehow, always finding yourself at the THS parking lot seeing who's car is there because there is nothing better to do.

4. In the Fall, you couldn't wait for Friday so that after school you and half of your grade could walk to Plasko's Farm for ice cream and apple cider donuts... and hope you could get them before the owners would yell at you to leave. (This one only applies to Hillcrest Middle School kids, AKA the inferior middle school in town).

5. You couldn't wait to be a senior so you could officially lead the BLACK HOLE at football games... if you were even willing to go in the cold.

6. You looked forward to the annual Senior Scav, the last week of summer before your senior year where a list of tasks is passed down by the recently graduated class... the official kickoff to senior year.

7. You pass by Country Club Rd. and get flashbacks from the worst Cross Country practices ever. Driving up Daniels Farm Rd. in the Fall and Spring, you are conditioned to yell "hi" out the window to your friends at practice.

8. You knew someone who worked at Gene's gas station... and found yourself spending more time there on the weekends than you would like to admit.

9. You are convinced Melon-heads are real after frequenting Velvet St. to see the abandoned insane asylum with your friends, IF you didn't want to drive all the way up to Fairfield Hills in Newtown.

10. You have had/have been to at least one middle school birthday party at the Trumbull Marriott.

11. You know that the 25mph speed limit on Whitney Ave. is way too slow... and can't help but hit a little air going down the huge hill at the top.

12. The guy at Towne likely knows your name.

13. You never find yourself turning right out of THS... that side of town is irrelevant for those who do not live there.

14. You know to avoid the Merrit Parkway from 4:00-7:00pm at all costs.

15. You know more than you would like to about people you aren't even friends with... in a town so small, things get around very quick.

16. Going shopping really means going to Target, or any store in the mall, for the millionth time that week.

17. The marching band was the best in the state and you would see them practicing, literally, every time you drove by THS.

19. Depending on the side of town you lived, you spent a lot of time at Five Pennies Park or Indian Ledge Park.

20. You would say you couldn't wait to leave, but when you got to college, you find yourself excited to come back to your hometown so you can reminisce on old traditions and make new memories.

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