If you're like me, two years ago, you were settling into a spring routine: going to work and class, studying, shopping, socializing - whatever your "normal" included. The truth is, we all strive to find a routine and seek the comfort it provides.
For many of us, there is never a day that goes by without a challenge. We wake up with a plan, and throughout the day, life throws some curveballs and we must constantly adapt. After a few weeks of navigating the chaos after every semester or job change, we finally get a handle on everything. Since the beginning of COVID-19, the previous statement can only be said if it is followed by laughter.
COVID-19 has caused lifestyle changes for everyone: switching to online classes mid-semester, having to worry about the risk of tasks as minute as going to the grocery store, adjusting to new living arrangements, and having to cope with the stress of the possibility of losing a job. Our "normal" has been flipped completely upside down.
The funny thing is, we all think that the pandemic is the reason for the chaos in our lives right now. The truth is, there is never any way to make a definitive plan that comes without uncertainty. Life is constantly throwing punches that force us to reevaluate and redirect our focus. Life itself is chaotic, and either you manage the chaos, or the chaos manages you.
The outbreak of COVID has forced us all to stop living in our set ways. The last few weeks have shown us how to prioritize what is really important in life, and given us time to reflect on the past and plan for the future. The tragedies that COVID has caused are proof that we are not promised tomorrow. Life is too short to waste time and energy on things that make you miserable. The tragedies are a reminder to live life to its fullest.
While it is easy to become cynical, it is important to realize that this too shall pass. While we are still stuck in the midst of it, we must find joy. Whether it is something like talking a walk through nature, video chatting with friends, or enjoying a home cooked meal, we need to remind ourselves of the little things in life that bring us joy. Slowing down isn't easy (or possible) for all of us, but there is an immense amount of good that can from it. Sometimes "stopping to smell the roses" helps us reach the internal peace we didn't realize we were lacking.
When this is all over, we must remember that our "normal" was never actually normal. Life is never able to be perfectly planned out in an hour by hour planner, and long-term plans are never guaranteed to work out the way you had hoped. Life is all about learning to thrive on the chaos you're faced with, and the challenges presented by COVID-19 are a great place to start.
