I'm An Expat Child And That Means There Are Pros And There Are Cons
Start writing a post

I'm An Expat Child And That Means There Are Pros And There Are Cons

Both are important.

9
I'm An Expat Child And That Means There Are Pros And There Are Cons

Imagine getting the chance to move to various parts of the world. Imagine being able to experience cultures and languages from different places. That is the life that expatriates live. An expatriate is a person who lives outside their native country or a migrant worker who is a professional or skilled worker in his or her profession. My siblings and I experienced the life of an expat from a young age. I was born in France, and before I even entered kindergarten, we moved to Canada. I then left Canada for Tunisia when I was 9. After 2 years, we moved to Nigeria, and 2 years after that we moved again to Ivory Coast. I stayed there for 3 years before moving back to Canada. From there I went to Manhattan for a year, and here I am now.

Moving around has exposed me to multiple cultures, allowed me to see different cities, and forced me to be more open-minded. Being an expat child also forced me to become bilingual and showed me the benefits of knowing multiple languages. It forced me to be able to assimilate quickly and become more adaptable.

However, as fun and enriching traveling around maybe, I find that there are a few downsides to it. When people ask me where I am from, I take a long pause before I answer, "it's complicated", or I say "my home is wherever my family lives. I also can no longer stand to be in the same place for an extended period of time. It also takes me longer to form attachments with other people.

But the good outweighs the bad, and if I had to go back in time, and was given the choice to live this life, I would gladly do it again.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
houses under green sky
Photo by Alev Takil on Unsplash

Small towns certainly have their pros and cons. Many people who grow up in small towns find themselves counting the days until they get to escape their roots and plant new ones in bigger, "better" places. And that's fine. I'd be lying if I said I hadn't thought those same thoughts before too. We all have, but they say it's important to remember where you came from. When I think about where I come from, I can't help having an overwhelming feeling of gratitude for my roots. Being from a small town has taught me so many important lessons that I will carry with me for the rest of my life.

Keep Reading...Show less
​a woman sitting at a table having a coffee
nappy.co

I can't say "thank you" enough to express how grateful I am for you coming into my life. You have made such a huge impact on my life. I would not be the person I am today without you and I know that you will keep inspiring me to become an even better version of myself.

Keep Reading...Show less
Student Life

Waitlisted for a College Class? Here's What to Do!

Dealing with the inevitable realities of college life.

90641
college students waiting in a long line in the hallway
StableDiffusion

Course registration at college can be a big hassle and is almost never talked about. Classes you want to take fill up before you get a chance to register. You might change your mind about a class you want to take and must struggle to find another class to fit in the same time period. You also have to make sure no classes clash by time. Like I said, it's a big hassle.

This semester, I was waitlisted for two classes. Most people in this situation, especially first years, freak out because they don't know what to do. Here is what you should do when this happens.

Keep Reading...Show less
a man and a woman sitting on the beach in front of the sunset

Whether you met your new love interest online, through mutual friends, or another way entirely, you'll definitely want to know what you're getting into. I mean, really, what's the point in entering a relationship with someone if you don't know whether or not you're compatible on a very basic level?

Consider these 21 questions to ask in the talking stage when getting to know that new guy or girl you just started talking to:

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

Challah vs. Easter Bread: A Delicious Dilemma

Is there really such a difference in Challah bread or Easter Bread?

62458
loaves of challah and easter bread stacked up aside each other, an abundance of food in baskets
StableDiffusion

Ever since I could remember, it was a treat to receive Easter Bread made by my grandmother. We would only have it once a year and the wait was excruciating. Now that my grandmother has gotten older, she has stopped baking a lot of her recipes that require a lot of hand usage--her traditional Italian baking means no machines. So for the past few years, I have missed enjoying my Easter Bread.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments