To People Who Rely On Personality Tests

To Everyone Who Places Stock In Personality Tests

People are complex, and they should be looked at as individuals, not categories.


Based on recent results, I am an INTJ, 3w4 Capricorn with a Scorpio moon. Isn't that so fun to say? Listing off your personality types can feel great, because it provides a sense of belonging, a validation of who you are. It also provides an ideal self for you to strive towards, as well as a way to justify your quirks and oddities. Finally, you understand how your mind works.

But do you?

In early high school, I was obsessed with the MBTI system. Back then, I could type anyone and everyone, and I could explain the exact reasoning behind my thoughts. "You have so much Se and Ti," I'd say, "You've got to be an ESTP." The person I'd be talking to would stare at me blankly, confused by the personality test jargon, and eventually they would accept my diagnosis and move on. I loved doing that. I loved telling people, "You are doing this action because you are X type, which makes perfect sense." I was intuitive and perceptive as it was, so it made perfect sense at the time.

The issue I did not anticipate was that my personality test obsession would prevent me from getting to know individuals as π‘–π‘›π‘‘π‘–π‘£π‘–π‘‘π‘’π‘Žπ‘™π‘ , and not just members of a category. I was dealing with my own issues, and I took it out on others. Deep depression and anxiety made it hard for me to trust my dealings with people, so I relied on MBTI to help me cope. I also, idiotically, convinced myself that I was incapable of logical reasoning, because I was typed as an ENFJ at the time. This meant that I was meant to care exclusively about emotions, and logic HAD to be hard for me. Strange, considering how logical I've become since letting go of the MBTI system.

What is it about personality tests that makes them so attractive to us, and why do we choose to believe them, even when all science says that they are wrong? And it does say that, by the way. Astrology has no evidence to prove it whatsoever, except for anecdotal incidents of broad horoscopes coming true.

However, I'd argue astrology is actually less harmful than MBTI, or other so-called personality "typing" systems, such as Enneagram. Astrology is so broad, that it does, in fact, seem to apply to everyone. MBTI and Enneagram, on the other hand, base their typing on a series of answers to questions, many of which will change depending on the test-taker's mood. Worse yet, tests like the MBTI set up a series of false dichotomies. They tell you that you cant be logical if you're compassionate, and you can't be organized if you don't also make plans months in advance. No psychologist supports these findings.

Based on the views of the modern personality psychologist community, the closest thing to an accurate personality test that we've got is the Big Five test, which measures extraversion, agreeableness, conscientiousness, openness to experience, and neuroticism. But even the Big Five is often considered to be problematic.

The fundamental issue that this gets to is that people are unique. When you shove them into boxes, you're forcing them into your ideal image of them, and that simply doesn't work. I understand that people like to have control, and I completely relate to that. Dealing with complex human beings is really, really stressful, especially if you have a mental illness. I would know. However, if you're able to acknowledge your own complexity, if you're sometimes concerned that you don't fit your "type" exactly, then why would you apply that theory to everyone else? Especially when the science doesn't support the theory!

Human beings are complicated, but that's what makes us so wonderful. We're unique and individual, and you can't force us into boxes so easily. Learn to interact with people as people, not as the categories that you'd like them to fit into.

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The Burning Of Notre Dame Has Actually Strengthened My Catholic Faith

Corinthians 5:17 says, "Old things have passed away; behold, all things have become new."


Every year, Palm Sunday is the start of Holy Week in the Christian faith. As the most sacred time of the year, those who believe Jesus died on the cross for our sins hold these days dear in our hearts. 2019's Palm Sunday, however, is now held in infamy. The very next day, the precious Notre Dame Cathedral in Paris started to burn.

As the world now knows, the famed and historic Notre-Dame de Paris was spontaneously engulfed in flames on April 15, 2019. The cause has not yet been identified precisely but is most likely due to complications during the $6.8 million renovations the cathedral is currently under. Completed back in 1345, the nearly 800-year-old church has withstood the test of time relatively well.

Until now.

The modern world watched as one of the biggest treasures of the past burned away before our eyes, Twitter even erupted in an unprecedented coverage of this world-wide tragedy as many took to social media to pour their condolences and share memories of this French icon. Religion, race and personal beliefs aside, the world collectively grieved and lent support.

While this is truly a loss on a global scale, the blow comes as a particularly harsh one to the Catholic community after a particularly difficult season of Lent. From the Pope addressing allegations of sexual assault, to backlash over the controversial theatrical release of the film "Unplanned", this latest development seemed like a cruel joke in the days leading up to Easter Sunday. I myself felt affected by this fire hundred of thousand miles away in North Carolina. One of our most beloved holy churches was ebbing away in front of us and all God could do was watch.

However, despite all that, we must look forward.

Despite much of the church being reduced to ash, some of the priceless artifacts and objects that were hidden away in the cathedral have been able to survive the ordeal; such as the crown of thorns, numerous pieces of art, the rose windows, the altar cross shown above and the iconic bells of Notre Dame. Once news of this broke out, I was strengthed to my core knowing God was indeed there.

It seems like such an oxymoron to see such a tragedy as a sign of hope, yet the Bible itself is full of those. The 7 plagues that tormented Eygpt, the Great Flood, and even the death of Christ as examples.

As children of Christ, we are told at a very young age to never question his plan. He is all knowing and has a way of making everything fall into place. God sensed that Catholics were in the midst of a troubling time and brought us this opportunity of a new beginning. The burning taking place during Holy Week can also be taken as perfect timing.

The whole premise of this week revolves around the death of Jesus at the hands of Pontius Pilate, yet miraculously returned three days later before joining Our Father in Heaven, the cathedral can very well do the same and return better than before.

It is a devastating loss but already we are seeing evidence of joyous aftermath. As I noted before, people from all walks of life are offering support and condolences to a faith they were scorning just a week prior. Priceless artifacts have miraculously been recovered and plans for rebuilding have already started. This is a sign of a new beginning, that God is backing us through it all.

Do not question His plan, just have faith. The rest will fall into place.

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You Know You're From Trumbull, CT When...

The best memories are made in this boring, little, Connecticut town.


1. The majority of places you will consider to eat at are in Fairfield or Westport... Colony, Shake Shack, Country Cow, Playa Bowls, BarTaco

2. But if you find yourself too lazy to get on 95 for food, Panchero's is the go-to... never Chipotle. If it is past midnight, the choice always comes down to the McDonalds in Monroe, where you are almost guaranteed to see a group of people you know, or Merritt Canteen.

3. Once you got your license, your Friday night plans consisted of picking up friends, driving up and down Main Street, and, somehow, always finding yourself at the THS parking lot seeing who's car is there because there is nothing better to do.

4. In the Fall, you couldn't wait for Friday so that after school you and half of your grade could walk to Plasko's Farm for ice cream and apple cider donuts... and hope you could get them before the owners would yell at you to leave. (This one only applies to Hillcrest Middle School kids, AKA the inferior middle school in town).

5. You couldn't wait to be a senior so you could officially lead the BLACK HOLE at football games... if you were even willing to go in the cold.

6. You looked forward to the annual Senior Scav, the last week of summer before your senior year where a list of tasks is passed down by the recently graduated class... the official kickoff to senior year.

7. You pass by Country Club Rd. and get flashbacks from the worst Cross Country practices ever. Driving up Daniels Farm Rd. in the Fall and Spring, you are conditioned to yell "hi" out the window to your friends at practice.

8. You knew someone who worked at Gene's gas station... and found yourself spending more time there on the weekends than you would like to admit.

9. You are convinced Melon-heads are real after frequenting Velvet St. to see the abandoned insane asylum with your friends, IF you didn't want to drive all the way up to Fairfield Hills in Newtown.

10. You have had/have been to at least one middle school birthday party at the Trumbull Marriott.

11. You know that the 25mph speed limit on Whitney Ave. is way too slow... and can't help but hit a little air going down the huge hill at the top.

12. The guy at Towne likely knows your name.

13. You never find yourself turning right out of THS... that side of town is irrelevant for those who do not live there.

14. You know to avoid the Merrit Parkway from 4:00-7:00pm at all costs.

15. You know more than you would like to about people you aren't even friends with... in a town so small, things get around very quick.

16. Going shopping really means going to Target, or any store in the mall, for the millionth time that week.

17. The marching band was the best in the state and you would see them practicing, literally, every time you drove by THS.

19. Depending on the side of town you lived, you spent a lot of time at Five Pennies Park or Indian Ledge Park.

20. You would say you couldn't wait to leave, but when you got to college, you find yourself excited to come back to your hometown so you can reminisce on old traditions and make new memories.

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