Everyone has their idea of who their middle school or high school sweet heart is right? I am sure we all have . However, not all of us marry that person like you see in elderly couples or in movies. Sometimes it is not that easy and things happen. 

 Sometimes there could be kids involved which causes for a sticky situation. It could be the right person, but wrong time. There could be several reasons for you not being together. Let me tell you DO NOT WAIT. Don’t wait for them to chose you, because you may be waiting for a long time. There may be someone else in their life and even though they are with that person they still want to be with you ... DO NOT CHOOSE SECOND PLACE. 

That person may love you, but if they are not doing anything about it then you should not be obligated to wait around. I did that I waited and all it did was make the wound deeper. I was the right girl, but due to circumstances as badly as he wanted to choose me he couldn’t. 

Do me a favor ... if you are in a situation where the other person wants to choose you, but can’t let them go. I am sure he or she is wonderful, but if they are not choosing you, choose yourself. Maybe, one day fate will bring you together again. If you have ever watched the soap opera General Hospital then you would know Robin. You might be someone’s Robin the person you love very much and want to be with, but cannot be with. And whoever you meet, whatever you‘ll do, nothing will be like it would be with Robin. It is okay to be someone’s Robin ... I know I am.