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An Open Letter To My Future Husband

I wonder if I'll actually show this to you or not.


Dear future husband,

First off, I have to say: I wonder if I'll actually show this to you or not. Either way, this is a letter of my hopes for our future. I have no idea if I have already met you or not, but whoever you are, I know you are a man of God. God will be the center and foundation of our relationship. We will not just attend church every so often. We will pray together. We will worship together. Our relationship will be a journey and I'm so excited to see how we will both grow closer to God.

I have prayed for you. I have prayed for patience, for I know great things cannot be rushed. I know that when the time is right, I will know for sure because God's timing is perfect. I already have a Pinterest board for our wedding because yes, I am one of those girls.

As you know, I love planning things and I need reminders to have patience. I'm a handful. I can be messy, insecure, loud, shy, and more. I am flawed. But you are also flawed because we are human. I know you'll understand that as I do and we'll laugh at our mistakes and imperfections.

I know you will be full of light. Of course, like everyone, you'll have some darkness but nothing that can't be overcome. I know you will be hopeful when I'm doubtful. I know you will be an encourager for when I'm lazy. Most of all, I know you will love me unconditionally.

I hope you will have a job you love. I will love you the same if you're a hotshot doctor or if you're struggling to find a career you love. We will be on the same team, always.

I know we'll have fights because we are human. But I pray our fights will make us stronger, not weaker. No matter the size of our fight, I know it will always end in forgiveness.

I hope you will be the one for me. Though I cannot predict the future, I trust my instinct in finding the right husband. I have full confidence in that we will be together till the end. Whether I have already met you, or I'll meet you in eight years, I am joyful and excited for our future to come.


Your future wife

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Lil Dicky's 'Earth' Is The Most Influential Song Of 2019, Change My Mind

And the music video may be even better.


Lil Dicky is a known musician know for his songs 'Pillow Talking' and 'Freaky Friday' featuring Chris Brown. The songs are fun silly and are very catchy. Last week, Lil Dicky released a new song titled 'Earth' featuring about 30 plus artists including Ariana Grande, Justin Bieber, Brendon Urie, Zac Brown Band, and many others. This song is just as enjoyable as his other songs; however, this one carries an extremely important message.

In this song, Dicky brings awareness to the condition of the Earth along with the idea of world unity. Through the inclusion of several animal species, he shows how the earth doesn't just belong to us as human, but to the animals as well. Oftentimes, the human race can be extremely selfish and forget that we do share the planet with other species who are just as important as us.

In one of his last verses, Dicky mentions the way we are harming the earth through pollution and fighting wars. This part of the song becomes more serious to emphasize the importance of this topic. In the music video, the colorful visuals turn dark and gray which can bring to attending the dying planet.

In his effort to save the earth, Dicky calls for unity among all countries and continents. Saying how all past issues are in the past and we all need to come together since we live on the same planet. With all the political issues happening on a global scale, the earth and its health are often pushed to the end of the priority list. By adding this part to the song, Dicky brings awareness of that topic back to the top.

'Earth' by Lil Dicky is the most important song of 2019. Through his creative artistry and inclusion of over 30 artists, people will notice the message of this song and hopefully begin to make changes that will impact the earth in positive ways. If you haven't watched the music video or listened to the song please do.

Earth is the only planet we have; thus, we need to show how much we love it by actually taking action to care for it.

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My Natural Hair Journey Over The Past 4 Years

When I was first going natural in 2014, I didn't understand the concept of not putting heat into my hair for my curls to actually show. I was still flat ironing my hair every week or two.


When I was first going natural in 2014, I didn't understand the concept of not putting heat into my hair for my curls to actually show. I was still flat ironing my hair every week or two.

When I finally decided to take the health of my hair serious in 2015, I began by cutting it very short. I then tried Bantu knots to see how my hair would look in its natural state, I wasn't a fan. So, I began wearing protective styles such as braids, weaves, and wigs.

As my hair grew underneath my protective styles I began to love my length and curls. I finally started wearing my hair out in 2016 when I first moved to Alabama to attend college. I would occasionally still wear protective styles but not nearly as often.

In 2017, I still only did twist outs on my hair because I didn't know what product combination to use to get other styles I wanted. Now in 2018, I still use protective style every couple of months but I am focused on the health of my hair.

I also recently began trying different hairstyles to just not always be stuck doing the same things every week. Look out for a blog about when I got my hair colored blue during the summer of 2018 and what led me to do it. Also, I will be posting about my wash day and what products I use to achieve certain hairstyles.

1. The Big Chop

January of 2015

2. Sew Ins (weave)

January 2016

3. Braids

July 2017

4. Natural Hairstyles

August of 2017

5. Natural Afro

June 2018

6. Coloring My Hair Blue

June of 2018

7. Natural Hair 4 year Anniversary

January 2019

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